BMI doesn't discourage me but in this 'fat is ok' world it has become, I see it as 'a wake up call'
are we talking 'hit that perfect' number, nope.....but who are we kidding, the 'normal' is not the norm from before the junk food hit full craze. even clothes. my 'old beloved jeans I won't part with' size 14 is not a 14 today. they are a 12. even clothes have been modified to 'stretch material' to make it seem different. we are a fatter global society.
but 'where do I fall into all of this'?????
for me it is when I feel great. over their number, I don't care. where I WANT to be and my feeling good is my only concern.
if we let every single outside source control our life we are lost.
I refuse to live like that.
but don't think it is ok to settle. be the best YOU can be by your own terms

that is how I attack this whole thing. forget 'what they' say, where do YOU want to be and can you make it happen?