hello
I am also a stay at home mom, so I can relate to the way you are feeling. I've said nearly the exact things to my husband!
"...i have not done anything other than be a great mom to my son and take care of our home" well, that sounds like something very important to me!!! No offense to people who put their kids in daycare-- I know it works well for a LOT of families, but I am so glad I don't have to drag my daughter out of her bed at 6am just to get her to daycare so I can get to work on time...
You are investing in his life-- and that is super important. He will grow up and think, "wow, I had a great mom who stayed home to be the one who raised me. She made sacrifices for my behalf." Taking care of a home isn't an easy task either..especially when you have little ones. My sister is a stay at home mom as well and she says she struggles with never having the feeling of "accomplishing" anything...to which I reply, "You accomplished another day in your daughter's life of loving her and making her feel important to you. That IS an accoplishment."
"I am at this point where i feel i should know what i want to do with my life or something." -- what do you WANT to do? is being a stay at home mom not the career you would like? I've never really wanted to do anything else, so I know what I want to do with my life-- it just sometimes feel unimportant or something.
"There are more days then not that i sit around in my Pjs all day and play with my son." oh, wow-- I SOOOOO know what you mean here. You hardly see anybody but the people at the grocery store, so why get dressed, right? I face this every.single.day. and I'll be honest with you; the days I get up, take a shower, get dressed, fix my hair, and put makeup on are the days that I feel the best....and I get the most done. I have found that such a simple action makes a big difference in the way I feel.
How old is your son? my daughter is 20 months old...the thing that kicked my butt into gear was thinking about giving her the food that I was eating for her daily nutrition. It HORRIFIED me. Thinking about giving my sweet baby girl fried everything, soda, cake, and a lot of other crap for her nutrition?! NO! I'd never do that on a daily basis...so WHY did I do it to myself? Thinking about my daughter picking up my couch potato habits instead of running and playing and getting exercise?! um, NO WAY!
as far as getting out of the funk-- you just have to make yourself do it regardless of how much you don't want to. "Get up, Get dressed, and DO something!" this is a phrase I have to tell myself all the time...and it really helps!!