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Originally Posted by kcnc
So does that mean that, after the carb-water weight, 30lbs lost on a low calorie diet will still be regained more slowly than 30lbs lost on low carb?
I don't think there is a yes or no to this question, because I think there are too many variables that have to be factored in.
There's also not a lot of scientifically reliable evidence that low-carbers actually do regain faster. It's mostly anectdotal.
Even if low-carbers do regain faster, it's possible that they regain faster because they expect to regain faster (self-fulfilling prophecy is a powerful force).
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Originally Posted by kcnc
And if I understand correctly, regaining on both diets isn't something that happens all at once - either way, its a matter of going back to the previous unhealthy way of eating - I think that's what you're saying, which makes me feel a little better.
That's been my experience exactly. I've been dieting since I was 5 years old, and I've lost and gained thousands of pounds, and I can tell you that the weight definitely never came back all at once, and never occured while I was still dieting and monitoring my food intake.
My normal pattern (regardless of the diet) was to get discouraged when the weight loss slowed or I experienced a couple small gains. Instead of seeing this as normal, or as a small setback, I saw it as a tragedy that proved I I was lazy, crazy, and stupid; that I would never make it to goal; that I was doomed to be fat, so it didn't matter what I ate. It was a rage and rebellion response more than anything else.
It sometimes seemed like "one day" I woke up fatter than before, but it wasn't one day. It was weeks or months. Now I can gain 10 lbs per week if I really put my mind to it (or more accurately if I shovel the food in, refusing to think about what I'm eating).
Personally, I never noticed a difference in speed between low-carb and high-carb, though to be fair, I only attempted low-carb dieting a few times, and never stuck with it for more than 3 or 4 weeks (I cut carbs and calories so low that I was constantly naueseos and fainting, rather than raising carbs/calories slightly or eating more often, I quit thinking that my problems were proof that the diet was unhealthy and unsustainable. I never tried moderately low-carb dieting
until my doctor recommended low-carb dieting for my insulin resistance but warned my not to go too low (admitting though that he didn't know how low that was).
I've never lost weight as slow as "this time," but almost from the start, I noticed that each diet was harder and slower than the last. If only I had learned these things on my first or even tenth diet, but I didn't, so that boat has sailed. I am finding that as my health gets better I can exercise more, and I'm sure that will help, but I know this time there will be no failure, because I've vowed that no matter what I've given up on giving up.
For me, the daily weigh-in is key. For some people it's a demotivator, but for me it helps alot, keeping me focused. It also helped me learn about normal weight fluctuations so that I don't get so freaked out when I gain weight for "no apparent reason" (it's even helped me identify some of the reasons PMS/TOM, high volume food/beverage days, high-carb days, exercise, constipation, sodium-related water retention). There are still some unexplained voodoo days, but I know there's no way for me to regain without my concent and cooperation.
I also look at my first job as being weight maintenance. Of course I want to lose more weight, but in the past when weight loss felt impossible, I felt like giving up. But giving up on weight loss isn't just giving up on weight loss, it's accepting weight gain. I've never heard of anyone who quit a diet that maintained the losses they'd already acheived. They always regained at least as much as they lost, and usually more.
I have to remind myself that every pound matters (because diet "tradition" tells us to feel that only getting to goal matters. When that seems impossible we think "what's the use, I might as well eat whatever I want, because I'll always be fat."
I have to remind myself almost daily that every pound, every ounce matters. I may not lose another pound, but I can at least keep off what I've got, and now (finally) I see the value in that - and that's the only reason "this time" is different, because weight mainteance comes first. I will not let myself think that regaining even a single opound doesn't matter. As long as I remember that it matters, I don't fear regaining.