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When I started the weight loss thing, I did not exercise at all. Walking for grocery shopping or around campus (never more than 5-minute walks to each building a couple times a day) was IT. Otherwise, I was sedentary. I lost steadily. Around February, I plateaued at 150lbs and decided I needed to add exercise. I'm an all or nothing person, so I went into it hardcore. I joined the gym and went from nothing to 90minutes per day of cardio and strength training. I was up at 4am every morning to do my work outs. Elliptical, treadmill, stair machine, strength routine. Everyday. And I hated and resented every minute of it.
After a few months of that, I gave up. I just hated it too badly. It was the end of the semester, my routine got jumbled up with a new class schedule, and I could never get myself back into a new gym routine. I have tried running, I've tried fitness DVD's, I've tried exercising with friends, I've tried setting fitness goals. I just can't do it. The moment I start doing an activity for the sole purpose of exercise, I feel resentful until I finish the activity. I just hate the act of "working out." That being said, I do like being active, and throughout the day/week, I look for ways to keep myself moving. I'll invite friends to go on hikes, I go window shopping and walk around for a couple hours, I'll park at the back of the parking lot, I get off at the bus stop past the one that is closest to my apartment so I have to walk. I just generally move a lot more than I used to. For the past several months, since reaching maintenance. I have not "worked out." 99% of days, I make sure that I walk for 60 minutes minimum. It has become habit to walk 15min right when I wake up, and I usually go on a 20 min walk around lunch time. I'll either go on a few more walks, go to the grocery store (which I count as walking time, haha), or something of the sort. But I make sure my body is up and moving for one hour. Walks are a non-threatening form of exercise for me. I'm happy to go on a walk, it doesn't feel like a work out. I often walk far more than my minimum of 60 min. The only thing that I feel like I should do for my health is strength training. I feel like I could devote 15min or so while I'm watching TV to do something of a strength routine. |
I definitely want to work out more..but i also just make excuses such as i'm too tired, i have something else to do (which can usually wait), i'm hungry, sick, cold, not in the mood, its too dark outside..a million and one things and then i feel horrible for it. I really need the exercise too because my blood pressure is a tad bit high but its very difficult for me. Like today I have a doctor's appt at 3pm after work. I know I will have plenty of time afterward to go to the gym..but chances are, i'm just gonna home. And even knowing this, i still slack off..i need a drill sergeant to yell at me and make me go lol.
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I lost 120 pounds in the past without exercising. I felt that I needed to concentrate 100% on one goal...dieting. When I had lost most of the weight, I felt so good that exercising felt good and I naturally adopted being more active without making it a "must". I bought a bike and biked to work. I walked more, I danced on the weekends.
This time around I am not exercising, but that is because I live in a truck and can't. I am older and I can really feel the need to move more, but losing weight is still happening even sitting still 14 hours a day and laying down the rest of the time. I have lost enough weight to feel good again and do swim when we are home and walk when I can. I don't make it a must, but I find I crave it more and more as the weight goes. I like that it is a natural desire and not some crazy master plan I cannot keep up with. |
I don't work out on exercize machines or the gym.
I do so much gardening and work around my 2 houses, I wouldn't have enough energy to do more than that. I planted over 500 plants this year, planted 5 fruit trees. Next year I am planting over 200 oak trees. Plus putting in a Zoysia lawn on 3 acres. And I cut over an acre of grass every week with a push mower. Then I picked and processed over 8 bushels of fruit. Shaking fruit trees is a lot of exercize. And I pick over 200# of grapes every fall and turn them into juice...a lot of standing all day for weeks. In the spring I will have more than a bushel of strawberries to pick and turn into juice. I don't drink sodas. I grow and pick my own fruit and drink the juice. I don't turn the fruit into jams or desserts or cookies. Just juice. Plus I grow blackberries, elderberries, raspberries, green peppers, tomatoes. A bushel of each last me a whole year. And I grow and make my own mullein tea. Pounds of tea. It is an antiviral. So I never catch colds or the flu. That is a lot of exercize. A lot of picking, standing, & pulling weeds. There are days I can't move off the sofa, I am so tired from heavy work. Then I moved over 100 35# concrete tree rings and garden blocks last summer, assembled 5 little sheds. Moved 50 40# bags of topsoil and manure. So I am too pooped from my regular work and hobbies. It is difficult for me to find enough time to rest. :( Now that winter is setting in, I have to turn to all the easier housework that I neglected all summer. But first I have to move the 5 bushels of compost that I grow my potatoes in. Those are really heavy, but its raining today, so I have a break to do laundry. I do housework on rainy days. I wanted to spread 1 ton of white marble landscape stones and 500 lbs pea gravel last summer, but it was just too hot to do every little project of mine. :cool: Next summer I will set the stones. And paint my house. Under all my excess fat is a lot of muscle. I don't need exercize, I need rest. :beach: I just lost 20 pounds since June. Now I am working on the next 20. :dizzy: |
I can't move just now, I'm ordered off by my doctor and sitting around (mostly lying around, actually) with my spine in a metal brace, then I'm having a bunch of operations but looking forward to maybe returning to a little light swimming within a few months. I'm not so much worried that my current loss will be slower but that it will affect me down the line when closer to my goal weight, I won't be as fit as if I'd been able to move all the way through and I might well have a very slow metabolism. Already I worry when I am really cold and I try to warm up by fidgeting instead of putting on the heater. I can wiggle a bit, I'd rather do 30 seconds of exercise than nothing!
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I started out exercising 4-5 times a week at a gym, but over the first two months, I lost interest. I also struggled with the fact that it seemed to slow my weight loss (I know the physiology - I just have a very hard time when the scale stalls for any reason). Right now, maybe once a week, I go hike for about an hour on the regional park trails in my area. I'm going to be increasing that and combining it with some strength training at the gym, but I haven't made it happen yet. Ultimately - I want to run :D
Also, I've seen the following words of wisdom on many posts on these boards, and it seems apt here: Dieting makes you look better in clothes. Exercise makes you look better nekkid :devil: |
I love Robin's idea of small goals, and I'd add something to it: have a fall back position: "I am going to increase to X, but if I hate it after a week, I'll go back to Y for two weeks and then reassess." If that's part of your plan from the beginning, it will keep you from pushing too hard and then giving up completely.
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gosh do I know what "abusing exercise" means. LOL Before I would tell myself "I'm going to really do it this time" and oh heck did I do it. I did it so bad that I was hurting the next day swearing I wouldn't do it again. Years would go by where I hated my weight and self. Losing weight= hard exercise and a strict diet. After hearing about these calories counting sites, I enrolled into one and started tracking my food intake. Then I ran into a couple weight loss shows and it inspired me so much to commit to doing the "Step aerobics" on the Wii Fit as I watched the shows (30 minutes a day). I told myself to not get ridiculous about it but just to take it slow, nothing mattered as long as I was moving. Things progressed after a while to where I started walking for 30 minutes a day.
My biggest goal was a phrase that I heard "If you do something for 6 weeks, it becomes a habit." After 2 weeks I was seriously counting down the days. I was so ready to quit but after a while I can say it became a part of my life. I don't see it as some horrible thing. I don't "LOVE" it but I can say I enjoy it. My dh lost all his weight without lifting a muscle. His cholesterol levels dropped so much that his doctor encouraged him to do some type of exercise cause his good cholesterol dropped as well. So he's doing a little here and there now. |
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You must talk yourself into the fact, that *this time* there will be no giving up. Ha. We can say that about our eating plan as well. Heck, we can say it about lots of things, can't we? |
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This has been a GREAT thread. I know for long term maintenance moving my body is a must. I can say this, I am coming off about a six month span of pretty harsh depression which I have NEVER dealt with before. Talk about NOT wanting to MOVE...ugh ugh ugh SO opposite of my personality.
To be able to focus each day on what I am eating and to be able to control my foods etc.....this is a big step. I do exercise 3-4 xms per week but it's just for my mental stability. Once a week I go to my personal trainer to do weight lifting to help build muscle so I'm not loosing muscle. The other days I simply walk but 2-3 miles. I also live in "valleys" so they are significant walks as far as hills etc :) |
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