I think my goal weight, though by BMI standards dangerously close to underweight, will put me at a just right, not too thin but not uncomfortably chubby either. I have muscle tone, but I still have a bit of softness in my hips and chest that make me feel womanly. I have lost the broadness in my shoulders and my gut which made me tremendously uncomfortable. There's still a bit of loose skin, but where as before I was strongly considering surgery, I wouldn't even THINK about it now even if it makes me a tiny bit uncomfortable. I was obsessed with trying to over compensate before. Push up bras, dark make up, constantly obsessing about what needed fixed.
Now, my make up is light, no thick eye liner or dark eye shadow. I like the way I look in nothing but a tiny pair of panties. I don't wear padded or push up bras any more even though my breasts are small (just the shaping cups in case it gets cold

). I love my breasts! Sure they're small, but they're mine!! I can feel sexy in my skin.
Maybe some would consider me or my goal weight too thin, or think that I have body issues for wanting to be as low as I am but I have never had as few image issues as I do now. I cannot describe how freeing it is for me to be okay with being perfectly imperfect. I am sexy and beautiful to my husband (though I know I always was) and most important I am sexy and beautiful to ME. I can finally see past all of my stretch marks and loose skin and I can feel my beauty from the inside out.
So, in short, I would consider myself slim. If anyone considers me skinny at the weight I am now, then I will gladly say that yes I DO aspire to be skinny. I would not trade what I have gained losing the last 25-30 lbs for most anything.