My honest opinion is that your body is going to do what it does. Meaning that you might lose weight fast, slow, in chunks...etc. I personally don't believe in the 1-2 pounds a week rule as I think your body will do what it does. If you are eating a healthy diet and learning how to transition into a life style change and exercising, all healthy amounts meaning you're not in a gym 12 hours a day or something, then your body is going to release the weight when it does. I just think there are too many factors and since no two bodies are a like one person could have weight melt off of them and another might work hard to lose a pound. It just depends.
I think time based goals can turn into something negative, but you could say a goal could be "I want to get healthy and lose as much weight as I can in those 4 months." You're not putting a number and a date. I find I have success when I'm just living and not focused on the scale or counting numbers (I don't mean counting calories if that works for you) or blah blah.
I think personally that learning how to listen to your body and give it everything it needs and learn how to live a healthy lifestyle is, to me, a more positive goal. I think the weight will come off when it comes off.
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No, not at your starting weight. I don't think it would be healthy. *Maybe* 25. Why don't you just start with a healthy plan and see what happens? I can tell you one thing for sure, if you don't do nothing, you'll be the same weight, (or more).
I like what Lori Bell said. It is realistic, but also just see what happens. To me, one of me core lessons is learning how to appreciate and listen to my body. The weight will come off when it does...I would love to blink and be 140 pounds or something, but haha, Rome wasn't built in a day, as they say. I say that a lot. Especially when I'm being impatient with myself.