Hi, thanks for the replies! Nice to know I'm not going mad anyway..hehe. every time I looked at the scales recently I was like

and was really starting to doubt myself (like, .. eh.. am I sleepwalking and raiding the fridge in my sleep or something? hehehe)
My smoothies are generally 1 cup of fresh pineapple, 1 banana, 1 orange and 1 peach (or 1 handful of strawberries or blueberries or something) pureed in my Vitamix blender (so I am getting all the cellulose and fruit pulp etc; I'm not juicing the fruit). I don't like chewing fruit very much because I have sensitive teeth and the fruit acid makes it uncomfortable, hence the smoothies instead :-)
I actually do eat some walnuts fairly frequently.. maybe every other day I'll have a couple sprinkled over salads or zucchini noodles, and I've got pecans and cashews as well. I eat lots of fresh vegetables, salads etc.. the list I wrote up there is a bit misleading because it makes it look like I just had an egg, smoothie, toast and some bacon all day (I was just writing down the things with the most calories) - but it was actually an omelette with ham cubes, tomatoes, zucchini, spinach, spring onions etc, and dinner was cauliflower rice with tomato sauce, zucchini spring onions etc. again... I certainly don't feel like I'm starving myself, it's weird..I eat chicken and fish regularly, salads with nuts, beans, fruit and fresh herbs and loads of greens... infact I feel less hungry and more satisfied than before I started dieting! I've always cooked healthy whole food, even when not dieting.. I just tended to overdo it on snacks and portions and not do enough exercise. Aaaaaanyway.. I do think you may be right about the number of calories.. it certainly doesn't make sense for someone to be gaining weight on 1300 kcal a day

I'll try having 2000 for the next two days (which is fairly close to my BMR: 1950), if I gain, I gain. I can always start readjusting downwards again afterwards (I hope!).
I think if it is "starvation mode", then it started off last Monday: I got very stressed last Monday, (work/recession scare related .. argh), couldn't eat my dinner because I was that nervous.. next day weight had plummeted by nearly 3 lb.. and after that I haven't been eating a great deal (not as much as before, I'd probably been eating between 1300 - 1600 before).. didn't have much appetite anyway. I regained weight after Monday quite quickly but I figured it was just water weight, but it's been steadily going up since then.. so maybe my "shock day" on Monday shoved my body over into starvation mode or something.. who knows

I've never had this happen before though, it's very weird. I'm going out with the family today anyway and I'm just going to enjoy my food, not think about calories too much, choose healthy options, exercise and see what happens.