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No butter on the turkey. I put a little Olive Oil maybe 1-2 tablespoons tops.
I've never buttered my turkey. I buy a kosher turkey as well, which means it hasn't been injected with butter and oil. AVOID at all costs Butterball brand turkeys if you don't want the additional calories. They inject their birds with butter flavored oil (among other things) to make them "juicy".
I ALWAYS brine my turkey overnight before cooking. Brining makes for such a moist turkey that I don't miss the butter at all. Just a light gloss of olive oil over the outside to help the skin crisp up and you're good to go. (Also I don't eat the skin at all - I leave it for my husband!)
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Stuffing - a little Olive Oil (maybe 1 tablespoon) just to cook the veggies. If it needs more more I just use a little low sodium chicken broth. No butter. I add more veggies in this than I used to. I mostly add mushrooms, onions, and carrots but whatever you like this is only going to make it healthier. This was a big savings because there was probably a stick of butter in this.
I always try to make my stuffing equal parts veggies and bread (if not more veggies than bread). Onions, celery, mushrooms, and so forth to round it out. I saute the veggies in a mix of olive oil and butter, but for the "moistening" part, I use chicken broth entirely.
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Mashed potatoes - I know the white potatoes aren't great but it's a holiday so let's make them a little healthier by not putting so much butter. I use a ricer to get the consistency. Then just a little butter and low-fat milk.
Mashed potatoes made with chicken broth and low-fat milk (or low fat sour cream) are yummy. If you really want a healthy mix, do half white potatoes and half cauliflower, mashed with chicken broth and low-fat milk. Anyone who wants to add a pat of butter at the table can do so, but the mix itself is pretty healthy.
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If you can get away with mashed sweet potatoes instead that's probably better. I'll probably end up doing both.
I do both as well. Sweet potato casserole is a favorite in our family - sweet instead of savory. No way around this one for us - it contains brown sugar and is topped with marshmallows. So I just tough this one out, since my family would kill me if I didn't make it.

I usually have a small scoop for dessert and just scrape off the marshmallows (which I don't really like anyway). I do make it a little healthier by adding fresh squeezed orange juice and orange pulp - which means you can cut down on the brown sugar a bit.
I also make homemade cranberry compote - also with cane sugar, but it's much healthier and better tasting than the stuff in the can. Just a bag of cranberries, some orange juice, some cane sugar, some ginger, and some water - cook it all together until the cranberries have popped and it's thick and dark red. You can also add nuts if you want (walnuts or pecans) for texture.
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