Hey there! I do know exactly what you are talking about with Drs blaming weight for everything (I would assume it is just as bad if you smoke) Unfortunately, I don't have any insight into your own problem...I would just have to say do as much research as you can on your own of what the possible causes are and maybe check out some medical forums from people who are having the same symptoms as you and keep trying to find a Dr who will listen to you.
I know this because I had a similar problem a little over a year ago with Drs I have my cholesterol, blood sugar, thyroid, etc tested every year when I go in for my pap. I had a perfectly normal test the year before...then in Aug of that year I was put on birth control pills for fibroid/period problems... I was still exercising and watching my diet like always...nothing had changed...but when I went in for my test after being on the pill for about 7 mos my numbers were through the roof! Triglycerides were scary! I had them re test me several times...each worse than before...I went to a cholesterol class (which I could have taught) They wanted to put me on cholesterol lowering drugs!!! I was resistant to that and started thinking...the pill was the only factor that had changed in my life...then I went out to some forums asking the question if birth control pills had raised anyone elses levels...there were quite a few people that had noticed their levels were raised after starting on the pills... And if you read the pamphlets with your pills they recommend not taking them or talking to your Dr if you have high cholesterol or blood pressure etc etc...hmmmm wonder why? Could it be that it *might affect those levels!!!* Anyway, I talked to my Dr about it and he was resistant to the idea but was openminded enough to entertain the notion...I went off the pills and was tested after 6 weeks...my cholesterol had dropped significantly (still slightly high) but my triglycerides had went COMPLETELY back to normal!!! I am not saying that they effect everyone like this but it is at least something people should be aware of if they are trying to put you on CHOLESTEROL LOWERING DRUGS, don't you think!!! Anyway, I am off the pills...still dealing with the other issues but I am definitely aware that I need to be my own health advocate and I think everyone else should be too!
I hope you find the answer to your own problem very soon...hugs!!!

) but WHOEVER said that drs are, after all, more educated than WE are....well, m'dear, how do you know they didn't sleep through all their classes, for pity's sake? Just because someone has their license to PRACTICE medicine (keep in mind that the key word here is *practice*) doesn't neccessarily mean that they know more than WE do about our bodies, nor do they neccessarily know any more than someone who actually does some research for themselves. And when you think about the way most of them went through their residencies - working 20 hours out of 24, exhausted, making mistakes, mistreating, never even having the time to think straight, never mind LEARN ....well, all I can say is that most of us who are educated in other disciplines don't learn - or attempt to learn - under such adverse conditions. Is it any wonder that when they finish up their residencies and start *practicing* they feel entitled to make as much money as they can with as little effort as possible? NO...I KNOW they're not ALL like that. NO profession has 100% slouches in it...but I would really have to say that with the way medicine is practiced today, there are a disproportionate number of hacks in it. I DON'T blame them entirely. There may have been some idealism in the beginning...MAY have been....but the system really does discourage it. Doctors today are like assembly line workers...get 'em in, throw some pills at 'em, collect your money and get 'em out. (Or tell 'em to quit smoking and lose weight...and the ones who do that are actually doing LESS harm than the ones who throw you a pill not knowing what it may do to you).
