I use the Low Fat & Fast series of cookbooks from Vegetarian Times magazine
all the time. There is a general one, and three ethnic ones: Asian, Mexican, and Pasta. Even my meat-eating husband likes most of the stuff I make from those books; Veg. Times actually publishes a Low Fat & Fast magazine but I can't find it around here. The regular Veg. Times magazine is stellar too.
The trick for me was not trying to replace meat. If you're trying to fill that meat-sized hole on your plate, you really limit what you could eat, and I always ended up substituting something with a ton of cheese or eggs. Or both

Sometimes I'll eat a cup of brown rice with a steamed sweet potato chunked on top, covered with some Thai peanut sauce. Vegan and under 10 points if you use an absolute drenching amount of sauce.
Other books that are good: anything by Deborah Madison, the Moosewood books (though some of the recipes in the low-fat book are simply awful), books by Lorna Sass (vegan books, so no dairy or egg).
Sample day from my food journal:
Breakfast (5.5 pts) -
1.5 cups Kashi Good Friends
1 cup milk (I'm not wholly vegan and I hate soymilk)
1 cup calcium-fortified orange juice
Lunch - (7 points)
1 cup brown rice
1.25 cups Bean Salad #5*
big glass of V8
Dinner - (9.5 points)
1 cup Caribbean black bean soup (uses coconut milk)
Kale stirfried with olive oil, red pepper flakes, and garlic
Whole wheat dinner roll
Snacks - (5 points)
A can of whole beets that I insta-pickled by draining and replacing the liquid with plain white vinegar
1 Brown Cow yogurt (an organic brand that's whole-milk, though they also make a nonfat)
* Bean Salad #5 is basically 2 cans of starchy beans and 2 cans of green or wax beans, dressed with a full prepared package of Good Seasons FF Italian dressing.