Disclaimer first: I do think veganism can be healthy, this is just my personal experience.
I was a strict dietary vegan for a year and a half. I was very diligent about maintaining myself healthfully; 3 squares a day, and I made sure I got all the nutrients I was missing by not eating animal products. I juiced, bought organic, took supplements, didn't overcook my food, did all the stuff that's recommended for healthy vegan eating.
2 things happened. The first and most obvious was that I gained weight. I gained about 20 pounds on a vegan diet. I think the reason was that I needed to increase my caloric intake in order to get the same amount of nutrients I was getting before.
The 2nd thing that happened was much more subtle. Around the 1.5 year mark, I took a good hard look at myself. My hair was dry, dull, and brittle. My nails were badly ridged and weak. My skin was sallow and I just looked tired. I
was tired, all the time. I was catching colds more often. In short, my health had just slipped downhill, but I hadn't noticed because it was so gradual.
After analyzing all the things that could have caused this--I wasn't stressed, I wasn't ill, weight gain, etc--I realized it was my beloved vegan diet. I think that despite my best efforts (and I put A LOT of effort into being vegan), I just could not keep up with what I was missing. Maybe it's just my own chemistry, I don't know. Plus, there's all those times when you're just too busy to cook a full-blown vegan meal; and who has time to do that 3 times a day? So, at least for me, sometimes I ended up eating vegan mac&cheese or some other vegan equivalent to fast food.
I started eating dairy, eggs and honey again, and sometimes I'll eat seafood for the extra protein and Omegas. Within a month or so of giving up veganism, all those weird health things just faded away. Now I look healthy again, despite the weight gain. Now have that to contend with. Incidentally, I still love vegan food and often prefer it; vegan food can be really, really tasty.
I really do think veganism can work for some people, but I also think you have to be incredibly devoted to monitoring your diet to be healthy. Again, this was just my own experience.
