Chit Chat #92
 

Welcome to the Jaded Ladies! :wave:

We are a friendly group who share all the ups and downs of our daily lives... not just weight loss. Won't you join us?

Good morning, ladies, :)

Marti - since I only bought 1 present per person from Neal and me, I didn't want anyone to guess what it is, so I numbered the packages. LOL. They all will get an envelope with money also, but I sure like not having to buy all those presents, like last year! They will still get plenty of presents, because they all buy for each other, too. And of course, the little ones get from Santa. Your lunch sounds wonderful, and I bet you walked it all off. I just can't get in the mood to finish my Christmas cards, and may not, until it snows. I don't mail them out until about the 10th anyway, usually.

Cristi - yep, I wish I was getting your snow!! Usually your weather makes it over to Indiana, so maybe I'll get some soon! About the presents, being as anal as I am, I have a new yearly list of what I bought for whom. At the bottom of it, I wrote who has which number, lol. It has been fun seeing Mary and Katie check them all out, lol. I told the twins which was theirs, but not what's in it. (a big Dora the Explorer dollhouse to share, lol)

Julie - when Spring comes, we'll be so glad we stayed OP, right? Wow, you're doing great as usual. Yesterday, in Walmart, I was sliding down an aisle sideways, looking for brown sugar substitute (they don't have any, even with the diabetic stuff in pharmacy) and anyway, I kinda twisted my leg. Didn't think too much about it until I got on the treadmill, and it hurt like h#$%! I couldn't even do a few strides! It doesn't hurt to walk normally, tho...

Mindee - I hope Tommy got the job! If not, then he wasn't meant to. Your little sweetie will be rolling all over the place now - how fun!

Ellen - so glad to hear Snookie is better. She'll get stronger everyday, hopefully. Oh Ellen, you think you just couldn't love anyone as much as you love your own kids, but grandkids are even better! My heart literally feels like it could burst sometimes when I'm talking to them or watching them do things. They make up for all sorts of bad things in life, lol. One of mine calls me Wham-ma, lol. And they always ask for Tic-Tacs, cause they know I've always got them, lol. I even keep a "silkie" in my purse for Makenzie, in case she needs it while we're out somewhere. I'll hush about them for now, lol. Hey I just wish I had a basement! Do you have a TV down there to help pass the time while exercising? Yes, I heard Cristi, lol. Think I oughta wash her mouth out with soap, lol? JK, Cristi!!

Angie - yes, we are all animal lovers! I considered putting that in the description of What is a Jaded Lady. That, and Christian. Like you, I use other boxes than what the present came in, lol. And I've been known to add a couple of rocks to sound like game pieces or something when the box is shook, lol. I wrapped a CD for Gina in an Oven Fry box, lol. It's just different enough to throw her off, lol, and the CD doesn't move. When someone new joins the family, they get warned by the kids to not worry what the box says - it usually isn't the same as what's inside, lol.

Susan - hope you're feeling better today. Want me to make you some chicken soup, lol. Glad things are ok with Rachel and Rebecca - that's a relief, I bet.

Sue - good to hear from you, and glad you had a good time with the DSs. Enjoy your turkey veggie soup today. Sounds good!

Katy - I'm beginning to think you were kidnapped by aliens! Hope to hear from you soon, sweetie.

Shanna - don't you have a moment here and there to say hi? Hope all is going well for you!

Hi also to Sam, Kathy and Katiecat...

I was feeling sort of down when I got up, but after reading what you all wrote, it cheered me up. I just now asked Neal about the snow, and he says we may get some flurries tonight and/or tomorrow... hope so!

Gotta do the laundry and work on my Christmas menu. Also gonna read more of my new book - The Five People You Meet in Heaven. Very good book!!

BBL,

Good morning, a quick post before I race off to work.

Susan, I think that you need to make yourself happy, its not like your doing something bad. You are a good mother. The girls know that, and what the ex does is his own problem to bare. I have to say both boys used to do the going limp on me,,,just at the most worst time...arghhh arms full of groceries or whatever...glad they are over that...lol

Cristi, I like my GF, I bought it at Wally's for 35 bucks a couple of years ago, it was a discontinued style. Its one of the large ones, with no temp control but we use it probably 3-4 times a week. We buy chicken breasts from Costco and I just toss on there frozen and its great. We are thinking of buying a newer model with temp control.
Ellen never thought to make grill cheese! I will be doing that tonight for dinner,,,with tomato soup...mmmmm
Jane, its been so warm here its scary. No Snow so far....

Hello Sue! mmm turkey,,,I used to make bread dough and roll it out, and make pop overs with left over turkey. Its like a pizza pocket and sandwich rolled (pun intended) into one. I bought this pop over thingy from pampered chef years ago....

Well better get going to work,,,
have a great day ladies

A very good morning ladies :wave:

Jane~it sounds like you guys have a lot of fun at Christmas, opening the gifts. I never thought to put rocks in anything but it is a good idea. ;) Why do kids think they need to shake the boxes? I too have put things in different boxes and if it is something small I have put it in a bigger box and then and even bigger box. Like last year...DD always wanted my star sapphire ring that her dad bought me years ago so I went and had it sized to fit her and gave it to her. She was happy but a bit irritated when she had to open three boxes to get to it. I would have kept it but it is white gold and I have gold now sooo...hope you are feeling better and glad everyone could cheer you up. I will be more than happy to send the snow your way. :wizard:

Susan~even though it was only a week as your step-mom said, you know in your heart when it is right. Besides you guys have been corresponding a lot longer and I feel you get to know a person through corresponding before ever meeting them. V and I corresponded for 7 months before meeting in person and then only spent 4 days together. I knew when I met him that we would get married. I didn't know when but I knew we would. Two months later I moved to where he lived and here we are 5 1/2 years later happily married. Anyway...hope you are feeling better today.

Ellen~I love you sense of humor, you always make me laugh. :lol: And I love all the Christmas quotes on the other thread, they are so nice. Yes, I said yuck to snow-only because I knew I would have to drive in it today. I love the snow and it is so pretty but when I have to drive in that slushy mess and then track home int he garage...it is yucky. And it is soooooo cold, brrrrrrr...I want to go to Hawaii. I will send some snow your way also, let me know if you get it. :wizard:

Sue~good to hear from you and to know all is fine with you. Also, glad you guys had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Mmmmmm, turkey soup sounds delicious. :T We had a lot of turkey left over but I didn't have time to do anything with it. DH and DS#1 took a lot of it to work for lunch for 2 days and then we had leftovers yesterday and it is all gone.

Well, I guess I better get a move on. I was up bright and early this morning trying to get some things done. I managed to get a pot of stew started, should be good this evening. Then I will make some cornbread muffins to have with it later. I cleaned the kitchen and mopped the floor and the entry way floor. Plus got a couple loads of laundry done, still have two to do but it will get done later. Now gotta jump in the shower and head to the store to get a couple of things and DD and I are off to the movie. We had this planned before the snow otherwise I wouldn't be getting out in it. And that's about all I have for now. I will try to be back later this evening to see what's up with everyone.

Take care ladies and I hope you all have a wonderful day!

Hi Angie~mmmmm, grilled cheese and tomato soup sounds good too. :T You ladies are making me hungry. :lol: I haven't looked at any of the GF grills yet but that was what I liked about the HB thingy-it would lay flat when you opened it and you could use it to cook pancakes, eggs, stuff like that, and also grilled cheese or other sandwiches. Don't know how to explain it but I liked it, just can't find it in any stores. Hey, send that warm weather this way, please! I am not liking the cold. Anyway, I gotta get going. Wanted to say HI since I saw you had posted while I was typing away. Take care and have a wonderful day. :wave:

Hi y'all
Once again, I am MIA here, and will be for a little while longer. I HAVE to get my last class finished! But, I do check in daily to read what everyone is up to, and I do still feel connected to you all.... will be able to post more after holiday break begins....

Angie - you mentioned my new fave food , the salmon from Costco! We get the ocean-caught salmon burgers and they are SO good! No color added, yippee

Jane - thanks for reminding me about posting... like I said, I check in, but can't seem to find time to post as extensively as I like...never can seem to get to everyone like I'd like to. :(

Ellen - hope your precious kitty continues to improve...
Susan- Your ex may try to attempt sway the girls now, but, remember, you are going to outlive him,! (jk) Seriously, tho', I was in the middle of this kind of PR campaign when my folks split when I was 13. Everyone assumed that since my mom was the one who left, that it was all her fault and she was the big baddie. As I grew, I could see there were two sides to the story and I came to know both my parents for who they were both in the good and bad. I just think that kids have an ability to see through manipulation and they know you for the wonderful mom you are no matter what the ex says.

Mindee - did Tommy get the job?

Julie - sounds like you are doing well - how's the weather in RI

Sue - glad you are enjoying your trip

Marti - too bad we couldn't have met up in Portland... well maybe next time.

And...sigh.. I'm off yet again- have to get my little pumpkin off to preschool
Later!
Katy

Oops! - Sorry Cristi! I am enjoying reading how your house is coming together for the holidays...you are so much more on top of this than I am that's for sure! I did just buy some new stockings and brass holders from Cost Plus. They were a splurge, but they look so nice on my fireplace. Thursday I get my order of fresh greens: a big wreath for the door and a garland for the mantle. Haven't done anything else, yet. Yikes! A tree! Gotta do that at some point, right?

Hello ladies…..how are you all doing?

Well, Tommy did get the job. The only thing is that the money sucks. He would be starting out at least $300 a week plus commissions. So if he didn’t make any sales, then we would only have $300 to work with to get groceries and what not. Plus, he would be walking all day, and he said that he wouldn’t be able to handle all the walking since his knees are bad. So, now he is back to looking again. He went yesterday, and waited for 2 hours for a bus to come home! He was completely frozen and drenched by the time he got home.

Brandon has been rolling over from his belly to his back, he has only done it a couple times, but hey it still counts. He is also getting up on his hands and knees and rocks. It is so cute though when he rocks, cause when he gets the burst of energy, he goes backwards, instead of forwards!

Marti~ I know what you mean! I cherish every day with Brandon! And I have already been thinking about how I will handle myself when he gets older, ie when he gets married, has his own family. From the way I pictured it, I would be able to handle myself, but we all know that it won’t happen that way!

Ellen~ Thanks for the happy thoughts. They worked, but Tommy pointed out that with the bad weather coming, and with it being MI, you can never predict what the weather would be like. He doesn’t want to run the risk of getting sick and then not being able to work productively because of being sick. And since he would be doing basically door to door sales, it would be tough on him.

Cristi~ Thanks for the card!!! Well, the snowball fight anyways! We are suppose to get flurries today, and then tomorrow we are suppose to get snow that will stick! I can’t wait because I want to see Brandon’s reaction to it all. He loves the Christmas tree….so that is something that we can breathe a sigh of relief about.

Sue~ It is so good to hear from you!

Funny story about Brandon. I sat on the floor in the living room yesterday to wrap the presents, and put him in the walker while I did it. He was pushing me out of the way so he could get near the Christmas tree. He has just started actually walking with the walker now. So we have been trying to limit his time in there, since they say that it can put a stop to the learning process.

Katy~ It is good to hear from you! Like I said above, he did get the job, but he turned it down. He has to get his license back first, and then he wants to try again.

A quick note to Cristi - they have Hamilton Beach grills info at epinions.com. Click on the one you like and they will tell you the cheapest place to purchase it, and will give other people's opinions about the product. I did that before I bought my digital camera and a couple of other things, too. Just a thought...

Good Day My Friends!!

I was just plain tired by the time I got home last night.

Ok.....let me see where shall I start? I'll start from the top to the bottom!

Mindee--It may not seem like much at first, but something is always better than nothing and $300 a week really isn't that bad. And if he's really good he'll get those commissions. After Sony closing, I never realized how much I took my job for granted....finding a job is tough! And now I'm very thankful to have the job that I do.

Katy--I mentioned to James while we were in Portland about you girls...he told me that I will have to get in touch with you two sometime soon. (by the time I do, Susan will be in Hawaii soaking up the sun!)

Cristi--Which movie are you going to see? I'm w/you, I don't want snow because I would have to drive in it and the last time I did that I went a sliding away!! I hate it. But to play in it isn't so bad. My grandma bought James a GF for his birthday one year...we really like it. We usually grill chicken breast on it or fish. I like how all the fat and juices slide right off!! I think I would have liked a bigger one, but since this one was a gift, we use it as we can. Enjoy your movie and be careful in the snow!

Angie--Is your week off over already?? Going to work? Time sure flys. How is Brandon doing? Is he recouping pretty well? I sure hope so. Nothing like being layed up while it's the holidays.

Jane--What a neat idea w/the numbers. I would have never thought of that. I do wrap in other boxes. There is one gift I bought for Jhanai that I'm looking at it thinking....how am I going to wrap this?? It's a weird shape...kind of a hexagon....I think I'll have to find a bigger box to plop it into. I bought her the Bratz dolls Shushi bar that she was wanting......it was on sale and I couldn't pass it up!!

Well today I'm going to get as much done as I possilby can. I have some laundry to do and straitening up of the house...I plan on getting some of my decorations out of my closet so I don't have to fight w/it this weekend...it will be all ready. Then I'm going over to my grandpa's to help clean up his place. Hope he's there! I've seen him once since he got back!! That man is just too busy.

Got a message from my sister....this Saturday some family members are getting together to decorate my grandpa's house. Saturday was the day that James and I planned on spending it w/Jhanai decorating our house and then going shopping. So now I need to figure out a time that I can pop on over there.....not sure what to do. I'll figure it out.

I better hop into the shower and get myself moving.

When is chat?? I'm usually up by 10:30......on here by 11:00.......I'll just check every morning to see if anyone is in there.

Talk to you all later...I'll pop in again if I have time before work.

Marti - since you are the only one who works evenings away from a computer, I'll go ahead and list chat at 11:00 AM, Wednesdays, Oregon time. I think that's 2 pm for me, which is fine. I won't always be here, as I also am not always at the Thursday evening one, either. Those who want to can hopefully make one or the other of the chat times.

Sounds good.....now to make sure I actually get up!! :D

Hi Everyone
How are all you Ladies today , Guess what I did today? Give up , I did 1 1/2 hrs of exercise ,when I started I wanted to stop but I kept going and I did it, I have really not been doing so well weight wise haven't lost anything every stressful moment I go through I just gain back what I lost,so I made up my mind ,now that my stuff is set up I will do this .But it sure knocks the wind out of your sails dosen't it. It wasn't like I woke up bursting with energy far from it .I dragged my weary body out of bed gave Kobi his medication for epilepsy and Snookie her meds for hyperthyroidism I spoon fed
snookie and she at almost half a can of fancy feast ,you know how small those cans are,but she is eating a little more, I gave her a syringe of warm pablum and water,and put her back to bed ,I feel like I have a newborn again:lol: Then I scurried down stair followed by the rest of her syblings who were impatiently waiting wondering why they couldn't have any off of the spoon and fed the poor starving critters .Then It was my turn. Made some coffee drank some coffee and then decided to face the much dreaded exersize equipment. I heard a few chuckles and whispers:gossip: ,until I put them to work :tread: :strong: :tread: and showed them I meant business, some nerve I say.:snooty: Now I will load up the dishwasher and dust and vacumn ,since I haven't accomplished to much else so far, my kids are working and they won't be home till around 10 pm,so I am on my own ,its nice and quiet.good time for a snooze ,but no I have to much to do.Anyway enough about me,

Hi Jane:wave:
I have to tell you again how much I enjoyed you pictures,You can feel the warmth coming right through the screen,as does your warm personality so it doesn't surprise me , Them Girls Cristi and Marti are making me feel guilty about the snow situation:lol: Now I know they have to drive in it, and its messy and slippery on the roads,and the last thing I want is anything to cause them not to be safe ,so girls when your driving no snow:nono: I'm sorry ,but for the rest of the time I want snow:cb: big snow ,little snow, lots and lots of big white fluffy flakes, snowman building ,angel making ,snowball throwing (safely of course) snow.
And yes I even like shovelling snow:yes: ,but mostly watching it fall from the heavens so silently so beautifully so gently. Nothing is more fun than watching the little ones out playing in it and they rarely ever complain when their in it. Oh how I wish I could go ice skating , but it has been many years and I don't think my ankles would hold out or my sore hip, but you know I might try. Jane I can hardly wait to have grandchildren I just hope they don't make me wait to long.I have a tv but its not hooked up yet , hopefully this weekend ,but for now its Christmas music and it worked out pretty well.
Have a great day .

Hi Katy:wave:
I still think your off being pampered in some luxury spa possibly becoming THE SWAN ,we will find out you know ,:lol: I know your busy ,no time for yourself I'm sure ,but its nice to hear from you. hope you get your class finished up and maybe we can hear about and see some of your holiday traditions and decorating, that would be very nice , have a great day.





HI Mindee:wave:
It so good that Tommy got the job ,but am I hearing you say he isn't going to take it. I know that door to door is difficult ,but 300.00 plus commission isn't that bad at least until he finds something more suitable. I know you both know your own situation better than anyone but like Marti was saying Jobs are difficult to find.Good Luck and Have a great day

Hi Marti :wave:
It sure sounds like you are going to be busy with all that decorating,So nice of everyone to help decorate your Grandpa's house.I hope you James and Jhanai have a great day decorating your house and shopping ,and get some rest after your done tidying up and doing that laundry your making me tired just reading about it :lol:

Hi Cristi:wave:
MMMM stew and cornbread muffins sounds so rib sticking good, what time is dinner ,whats for desert or should I bring some, how about pumpkin cheesecake or chocolate truffle torte whats your pleasure.:lol;Gee everyones so busy doing housework ,thats what I'm supposed to be doing :sssh:

Hi Angie:wave:
Let me know how you like the grilled cheese on the grill , wow you really got a bargain on that grill,I would like the temperature control on mine to so I may look into a new model to.since its so frequently used Don't tell Jane or Cristi:sssh: but I think they have something against George Foreman they like some guy named Hamilton Beach if we split those name up we'd have George Hamilton he likes being golden brown to :lol: Sorry bad joke :o:

Hi Julie:wave: Hi Sue:wave: Hi Kathy:wave: Hi Susan :wave:
I hope you are all doing well ,I was thinking Sue could send some of that turkey soup over to Susan ,does it matter if its chicken or turkey,I think she needs some ,Hope your feeling better Susan, Glad your having a great time Sue, and Julies doing a great job ,and Kathy Where is you at girl?????
I hope you are all well and having a great day,
I should go and feed my little critters ,do some of that housework ;) but I think I need some coffee so I will talk to you girls sooner probably than later.

Ellen you crack me up!
Well I got home and have chicken nuggest baking, and a salad, but still want me grilled cheese so Im going to make that too~!

Marti, how about you and DD decorating your home and once you are about 3/4 done head over to your grandpa's...maybe bring the makings for hot apple cidar? Maybe buy some cookies,,,hang out with the family a bit then go back and finish your decorating. I know there is no rule book on how and how long you need to work on decorating so,,,don't make yourself stressed.

I went to work and when I was off took Becky to emergency, she was complaing of chest pains,,,she had me worried,,,got to the Rockyview,,,5 hour wait. So took her to a walk in clinic and that Dr. thankgoodness was thinking fast,,,has a whole battery of tests scheduled. We have a pretty good health system here,,,if you can find a Dr.
Have a band meeting tonight,,,,*sigh
Well Im going to go and eat my GC.

Ellen--Your posts always brings a smile...you have a great sense of humor! I'm glad that you got some exercise in! That's fantastic. I really need to move my butt more. My thighs have really gotten to know each other more over the years and I hate to do it, but I really need to seperate them and let them be alone!! January! That's when I get my gym membership!


Well ladies, I managed to actually SEE grandpa today. He was home! He told me that he was mad at me (as he was smiling at me) that I haven't been over. I gave him this stern look and said "Hmmm....I've come over many times and you're never home!" He just smiled and said "yea yea I know, I'm a busy old man" Love him!!

Not sure what I'm going to do Saturday. I may or may not go and help decorate.....decorating two houses in one day could be overwhelming....but it is two different houses and it could be lots of fun. We'll see. I'm going to talk it over with James and Jhanai and see what we decide.

I managed to clean up my house, get some laundry done (after I cleaned my grandpa's house) and swept the entire house up. Tomorrow is mop day! (weeeee...what fun!)

Ok, I need to get ready for work. I have an hour before I leave, I have to make a phone call to Jhanai and pack my purse w/things for TOM!! I have cramps from way down in the boiling caves...and if I sit too long they really bother me, so off I go!


Sorry for all my babbling......just wait until tomorrow...I have more! :D

I'll be checking the chat tomorrow at 11:00 my time....so hope to see any or all of you there!

Bye!

Well Angie--When did you sneak in there? You have good idea about the decorating. I also have some shopping to do and getting a tree....since when have I been so busy?? I may collapse trying to keep up! Ok...off I go, just wanted to say hello to Angie!! HELLO!!

Hiya ladies~

Chatty bunch today aren't we? :)

Jane~thanks for the tip. I think you had mentioned epinions here once before and I forgot about it. I will definitely check it out. I am really wanting one of those because it opens up like a griddle (couldn't think what it was called earlier-DUH!) and I like that. Plus it is like the GF grill. So :thanks: for the tip.

Marti~what fun to decorate two houses. At least if you go to grandpas there will be a lot of help so you wouldn't be doing it all yourself. But I can totally understand the stress of decorating two houses. I agree with Angie, she has a good idea. Maybe you can drop in with an ornament for grandpa or some cookies and just visit with everyone for a few mintues and explain that you, James and Jhanai are decorating the house. I am sure they would understand. We went to see Christmas with The Kranks, there was nothing else on that we wanted to see, well maybe that movie with Nicholas Cage. I think it looks like it might be interesting. We did see some previews for some upcoming movies that look funny. Oh, the snow melted before 10:00 which I was glad for. They usually keep the streets cleaned pretty good but they can't get everything and I swear, it seems the worse the weather is, the worse the people drive.

Ellen, Ellen, Ellen~you are to funny lady and I appreciate that. Oooo, you can bring some pumpkin cheesecake over any time, that sounds so delicious and I have never had it. The stew was good, as was the cornbread. Unfortunately there was no dessert. We hardly ever have dessert unless it is a special occasion.

Katy~love the avatar, Leigh is such a cutie! I miss shopping at Cost Plus, haven't been to one since leaving CA. Sounds like you will be busy soon enough with the decorating yourself. I can smell the fresh greens now. I was thinking about going to a Christmas tree farm and see if I could get a few scraps to mix with a couple of things just to get that fresh smell.

Mindee~well, I too agree with the others, $300 a week is definitely better than nada, especially since jobs are so hard to come by. I have been looking for a job forever it seems. But I do wish you all well and hope that Tommy finds the perfect job for him.

Angie~I do hope your friend Becky is okay. Chest pains always scare me to death, you never really know what it is. Emergency rooms are the pits! When I took DD we were there five hours, but I don't know of any walk in clinics around here. I know they had them in CA all over and it was kind of nice. Can you tell I am missing CA?

Okay, I hope I didn't miss anyone-too many posts today. Hi to everyone else. :wave:

I will definitely try for Chat tomorrow ladies. I have a pretty easy day tomorrow since I bought some groceries today, no need to head to wally world. I am going to finish up with the mess I have in the living room. Been doing a little bit each day. Finished up the laundry today and just need to mop the bathrooms. The rest of the day is mine, all mine. :D Anyhoo, nighty night ladies.

psssst , I am on the phone with Rocky. I will type real soft so he won't know I ain't listening to him...lol

I feel better. I think it was the turkey that I ate.

Love both Katy's and Mindee's picture thing. You guys are so smart- wish I could figure out how to do Gaby.

Thanks for the encouragement!!!!! I just feel so selfish sometimes.

Thanks Cristi :) - what you wrote was sweet.

hmmm, I better go......lol. Sorry. I am going Thursday morning to the coast and file my response.

Really tired and a touch of depression- trying to perk up....

chat later ;0

Hi there Everyone
I thought I would pop in before I climb into bed ,and see what everyones doing:mag: hopefully everyone is having a great night ,but its late .so go to bed :rollpin: Actually I'm confused :?: about what time it is everywhere, I'm confused what time it is here to :lol: Hi Cristi :wave: I will send you the recipe for pumpkin cheesecake if you would like it ,I've been making it for years for Christmas Dessert and I have never had anyone turn it down.we love it and Christmas Dinner isn't complete without it. I sure hope you like it as much as we do.:yes: Angie Hi :wave: how was the grilled cheese ? I'm sorry to hear about Becky's chest pains I really hope it isn't anything serious,glad to know that she had the appropriate tests done immediately.How is Brandon doing .hopefully he is healing ,does he have a lot of pain still? Hi Marti :wave: my thighs have become a little too familiar with each other as well.just a little to close for comfort , you know what I mean,I liked the comment about separating them and letting them be alone too funny.:lol: Hi Ellen :wave: You really should go to bed , before you drive all of these girls crazy with your endless chattering .enough said good night everyone :yawn: till tomorrow

Just a quick "hi" to all. It is cold here, and not at all good vacation weather.

Might I say something about the grills? I love my GF and it has the temp. control. BUT they now are making them with grills that pop off and go in the dishwasher. Wish I had waited, they are hard to clean sometimes. I also like the ides of the ones that lay open flat like a griddle. I just don;t need any more kitchen gadgets to try to store.

I am going to try to make one of the chats this week. I am thinking of you all. Have had a tough few days with family problems and need some good wishes!

Stopping in before I head off to bed!

What a busy night tonight was!! They had e-mailed everyone asking for volunteers to stay over....I was to achy and whiney so I didn't. I pretty much pretended I never got the e-mail......(oooohhh so bad!)They were catching up though so I don't feel too bad.

Cristi--I think you're right (and so is Angie) about going to grandpa's to decorate. The thing is....there are some members of my family who take control of a whole situation (which takes the fun away)and that is what is bothering me. So I will figure it out as I get to that day. So what did you think of the movie you went and saw? Was it worth going to? Very happy to hear that the snow was not in your way of driving!! (must make sure my friends here are SAFE!)

Susan--You need to realize, that no matter what the situation is, when you have kids, you are always going to feel selfish or guilty be it something major happening or something very minor . It's just a motherly thing wanting to make sure everything is right. And you have to know that your feelings are just as important! When your happy, your children are happy. So my thoughts are w/you during this time and I'm sure everything will be alright. In fact I know it will. I'm so happy you found Rocky!! Give him a hug from us ok.....(even if it's just over the phone!)

Ellen--You are a funny lady!! Did you tuck yourself in tight? Give yourself a peck on the cheek? :) As for my thighs...I think a separation is a good move on my part....now if only I can talk them into it. Also, I have to try and keep my behind from smiling so big!! The more weight I gain the bigger the smile! :D

Sue--How is the weather? Are you enjoying being in Cali? Is that where you're at? (My mind is wondering so much....to much going on and I can't keep up!) Well I'm sending you some Good Wishes your way! I hope everything is alright. (((((((Good Wishes for Sue))))))) Pop in again soon when you have time.


Ok...I think I better get to bed before I collapse. I'm not that tired, just achy and that makes me whiney and cranky...and who wants to have that around for company? :p I'll check in for chat in the morning....the latest I'll check in should be 11:30.......but if I'm not on by then.....PLEASE! Come find me!! :D

Night girls

Good morning, oh Chatty Ones,

Katy - love the idea of the fresh greenery. Like Cristi, I can smell it already... I'll be glad when you get your Christmas break and we can hear from you more often. Love your avatar!!!!!!!

Marti - oic about going to Grandpa's Sat. You're right to avoid that if it's going to put a damper on your day at all. You could go on Sunday when the others are all gone and let Jhanai and him have a nice visit then, lol. Hope the cramps are gone today.

Mindee - not to pick on Tommy, but, like the others have said, 300 bucks a week sure beat 0 dollars a week! Hopefully he has a lead on something else real soon. Didn't know he had trouble with his knees... is it something serious?

Ellen - wow, exercising for an hour and a half would kill me, lol. Hope you get your TV hooked up soon, although the Christmas music would be very uplifting, too. I don't mind driving in the snow since I've been doing it since I was 16. Most vehicles are 4WD now, which makes it so much safer. Ice... now that's another story. Thank you for all your kind words.

Angie - so is Becky ok?? Also, give us an update on your other patient too, ok?

Cristi - yep, I did mention epinions before. I love that place, and have looked up stuff I already own just for the fun of it, lol. Btw, how's your arm? Oh yeah, I keep forgetting to mention to you... remember when, awhile back, you asked about my skin sagging? I forgot to say what pitiful shape my boobs are in! They point south and are a fright! If I get the money I want to have them lifted. Wonder how much that costs?? Maybe epinions can look that up for me, lol. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Sue - hope you make chat today! Hope I do, too, lol.

Susan - nothing wrong with multi-tasking, lol.

It has been rainy and very, very windy here. No snow yet. :( But at least the sun is going to shine today. One more thing to be thankful for. :)

See you later in chat.....

It's going to be a beautiful day in the neighborhood today. Even after the very cold start this morning. Thinking I will go wash my car and get that icky sand/dirt/salt mixture off of it once it warms up. When we lived on the dirt road after a rain and the road was dry I went to the car wash to get the caked up dirt/mud off, in the cold and would be slipping and sliding because the water was freezing as I was washing. :lol: Only did that a few times, it was too cold. Just can't stand a dirty car.

Marti~I see...isn't it terrible how some people do that? Although, I think I probably wouldn't mind. That way I could just sit back and enjoy the others company. :lol: I'm glad to hear your grandpa is keeping hisself busy. When my grandma passed, my grandpa ran away from everything and everyone and when he came back and finally faced what happened it was hard on him and he gave up-didn't do anything and I thought that was so sad. The movie...I thought it was okay. I have to say though, Jamie Lee Curtis was driving me crazy with all her screaming. And I loved the N Reeky, that cracked me up, it was supposed to be Enrique. Not sure why that cracked me up when I saw it but it did.

Ellen~I would love your recipe. Pumpkin cheesecake sounds so good and I love cheesecake, just don't have it very often. May just turn into a new christmas dessert for us too. After Thanksgiving and all that cooking I am definitely going to cook less for Christmas, even though it didn't seem like I cooked much this time.

Jane~oh, I too would love to have the boobies lifted. I would love to not have to wear a bra but if I don't I swear by the time I am 50 they will be hanging down to my knees. Not a pretty sight. :yikes: Thanks for the heads up on epinions. I found the stinking thing and now know what it is called, HB Meal Maker Express. I kept seeing the commercial and looked in Target and Wal-Mart but didn't see any. Almost forgot, love your avatar also. How the heck do you keep the hat on Molly? We have done that to Ernie, put a santa hat and also the antlers and he goes nuts trying to get them off. He doesn't even like a sweater on when it's cold. Did I tell you guys how he loves playing in the snow? He's like a little kid, can't get enough of the white stuff.

Susan~ditto what Marti said. I can't tell you how many times I felt selfish and quilty and for no reason. When the kids dad passed I lived for them, I did everything for them for years. Two years after I tried dating and they were happy but I don't think I was ready. Of course it is different when there is an ex involved. Finally realized that I needed to do something for myself and I don't think anyone can be happy if The Mommy isn't happy. So put those thoughts out of your mind missy and be happy, that's an order! :drill: :lol:

Hi Sue~I like the idea of the removable grids, just seems easier to clean. And of course the lay flat griddle, that's what I like about the HB. Sorry the weather is not cooperating for ya. Does seem odd to have icky weather in Vegas, just seems like the sun should be shining all the time.

Well, gues I best get going. Going to finish up in the living room today, clean the bathrooms and run to Barnes and Noble and Michaels real fast. Oh, and go wash my filthy car. I will try and make chat, don't see anything keeping me from it.

:wave: Have a good day! :wave:

Morning Ladies
Today is a sad day my baby Snookie passed away here at home, I sat up with her early this morning ,she seemed to not be feeling well and before we could do anything she passed away.I'm so thankful that my son was here ,it would have been to hard to face this alone.I'm not feeling so well right now ,so I will try and talk later ,

Hi Ladies -
It's Wednesday - I will try to remember to check in on chat today at 11 (Oregon time) The only thing that could interfere is if my DD is high-maintenance or I just plain ferget :?: I wish my brain could get a memory upgrade - too much data, not enough disk space.

Jana - I am with you, honey, on the plastic surgery. When I am at goal, should that day ever come, I want a tummy tuck. My girls are fine, not much there to be sagging. Check out this site ( www.awfulplasticsurgery.com) for what you definitely want to avoid :lol:

Cristi - what Jana said about epinions - I have also used it when shopping around - that's where I went to research exercise equipment and ened up with my folding stepper. It's a great site - but don't think they do plastic surgeons...but you never know ;)

Sue - hope things are looking up in CA - when you mentioned a tough time, I immediately thought of your DD and her divorce - I am saying a little prayer and maybe I'll get to chat with you today

Susan - Yay - for getting response filed - that will be a huge relief. I imagine no one will have time to bug you again through the courts until January.... are you pushing for mediation? If you do, that will most likely unearth Mike's druggie problems.... I am so happy for you and Rocky.... Just remember..this time next year...this time next year

Marti - Hope to see you in chat today. Sorry about the toxic relatives... I have a little o'that in my family. I would wait and show up late after it's all done, then no one can put me to work, or criticize my contributions, or you name it. Usually I show up with alcohol of some kind, then everyone is happy ;) Don't know if that would work in your case.....I am generally of the opinion that the holidays should be fun and making time for people... so when stuff starts happening that interferes with my grand plan, I "Just Say NO"

Ellen- No - I'm not off turning into a Swan! that made me laugh... I think those gals end up looking like drag queens, but if that's what they want, then more power to them. My plastic surgery aspirations are very minimal...just want all this loose skin off my tummy. No point in doing it 'till the weight is off.

Hi to everyone else - I'm off to work on our budget and get some exercise...will do my darndest to get into chat at 11

Ellen - missed your post before - I am so sorry about Snookie. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this sad day

Hey Girls!!

Okay let me catch up..everyone has done so much chatted since I last checked in!!!

ROSIEKATE: What a cutie Leigh is!!!! You're so lucky!! The weather here is rainy and windy today....its that time of the year ya know!!!

JANE: I love the picture....is that your pup??? What a darling!!

MARTI: As far as xmas gifts for DBF, he wants a PDA $350.00, and a couple other things...He'll probably get the pda, new bath robe, some stocking stuff and some new tshirts!! He always has a big list, anytime of the year!!

MINDEE: Sorry to hear you and Tommy are having a rough time of it!! Hang in there, it will get better!!

Well I've been waiting 2 1/2 weeks for a response for the doc on the "BABY" issue!! He finally called back today and left a message at my house, but when I try to call back..busy!!! So maybe I'll have some info later on!!! Probably wants to see us for more blood work!!!! .....sigh Going to get my hair cut and highlighted this afternoon...I need a pick me up!

HI to CRISTI, ANGIE, SUE, SUSAN, ELLEN and Kathy!!!!

Julie

((((((HUGS)))))) Ellen~I am so sorry to hear about Snookie. I hope that can be be some comfort in knowing that she is not suffering any more. I know it really never helps because we want them to still be with us. But she is now resting in peace with her sister. I am glad also that your son was with you, and you take all the time you need. We are here for you when you need us. :grouphug:

Oooops! :o Forgot to say hi to Julie and Katy :doh: HI Julie and Katy :wave:

Julie~have a fun day being pampered. I so need a haircut.

Katy~darn, no plastic surgeons on epinions! What's a girl to do? :dunno:

Well, thought I would check and see if anyone was here to chat and don't see anyone online-thought I saw Marti on, I see how ya are-don't want to chat with me eh?? :lol: :joker: Oh well maybe next week. Now you ladies have made it to where I HAVE to go do something! :lol: I did go get my car washed. I tried this place I have passed a zillion times but never went to, a laserwash-GREAT! Didn't have to get out and get my hands cold. Just sat in the car while it did its thing. Not sure why I never tried it before. Anyway...also went to Michaels and Barnes and Noble and now to clean, ugh! See ya :wave:

Ellen--So sorry to hear about your kitty!! Hugs to you!!!

Cristi--I was on chat this morning....around 11, we (me, Katy, Jane) chatted for an hour or so.....what time did you pop in? I would have loved to have chatted w/you too! Next time ok!

Julie--Hope you have good news about the baby issue. And I think going in to get a hair cut and color is a great way to get a pick me up!!

Jane--I'll have to check out epinions sometime. Never heard of it, only from here! Had a good chat this morning!

Katy--No alcohol at my grandpa's....would love to sometimes. But there are some family members who just don't know how to handle it so we don't bring it. Great chatting with you too!

Hello to everyone else.

I've been cleaning up my house (still) after chat. I've mopped my floors and then decided that I want my electric bill to not be so drastic and so I built a fire in the wood stove. Now my house is nice and cozy!! It is now time for me to get myself cleaned up and then relax before I go to work.

You all have a great Wednesday!!

back for a minute - I changed my avatar ( again)

Had a great chat today - the Wednesday time seems to be good!
Sorry we missed you Cristi - maybe next time

UPDATE!!!

Hey all, well bad news!!! The doc washed his hands of our situation, said everything he can do checked out alright and that we should seek the help of a fertility specialist!!! VERY DISCOURAGED TONIGHT.... DBF's health coverage wont cover him to see a fertility doc!! So we're down in the dumps. Everything always has to be so tough for us, it could be the simplest thing, and it turns into a fiasco. They ruled out any hormone issues, and said the testosterone was fine....so now what???? I was just really hoping for a bit of good news..... My hair came out nice, but it doesnt even matter now after finding this out.......just really upset I guess.......

See yas later
Julie

Ellen Oh if I was there I would be giving you a big hug...and sharing your tears.
hugs,,,,

Sorry I missed chat. It is still a cold and windy day in Las Vegas. We will be here until the 18th and then will be back home for the holidays. Hope it is warmer here when we come back out on the 1st.
Yes, the family trouble does involve my divorced daughter in CA. She was let go from her job because of downsizing. Then DGS is having a bad time in school..not doing his work, etc. She doesn't know where to turn with him or finances. It is just frustrating. Would love for her/them to be able to move back home, but it isn't going to happen due to the divorce. Prices are so high where they are and would be so much lower at home. Plus having family to babysit would help her. I sure wonder about divorce laws that allow one spouse to be living high and the other to struggle with everything. The little one has adjusted really well, but the teen is having a bad time of it. Breaks my heart.

Good morning ladies!!

To Ellen, Sue and Julie - I am so very sorry for your troubles, ladies!! And right before the holidays, too. :( If I could, I'd give each of you a big ol' hug, and a shoulder to cry on. :grouphug: I just hate to see a Jaded Lady in distress, and here there are 3 of you at once!! Once again, I'm so sorry...

Cristi - I'll have to check out the HB meal maker. Regarding Molly and the hat, she only left it on long enough for me to snap the photo. And that was with a promise of a cookie, lol. She was sitting up in my chair for the shot - a place she isn't normally allowed, so she was apprehensive about the whole thing, lol. Sorry you missed chat! We were in the chat room when you posted your 1:30 ish post (which is 2:30 my time) - don't know why you couldn't see us?? Then I PMed you to join me there later, but I guess you didn't get it in time. Btw, thanks for the ecard!

Katy - love the new avatar!! How sweet!!!! I checked out the PS site - :yikes:!!! At least my nipples aren't like Tara Reid's!! I have to say, I would still like to do it, though.

Marti - love your new avatar, too! It's strange after all this time to see you with a different one. Love it!! Yep, we had fun in chat - you girls are crazy, lol. That's why I love you guys, lol.

I'm doing my grocery shopping today and taking Madison with me. The girls are over their colds, and have cabin fever, lol. I sat and recorded Rudolph last night on TV, with my finger on the pause button, and for 1 hour, paused out the commercials, lol. The DGDs will love that!!

I finally finished my Christmas cards, but won't mail them for a week or so.

Not much else is new... bbl,

Morning ladies~

Was going to say good morning but doesn't seem to fit today with so many having troubles, which I am very sorry to hear about (Sue, Ellen & Julie). HUGS to you all. :grouphug:

Jane~I was on at 1 but was playing with my signature, and then played around with it after I posted. Didn't get your PM till I checked in last night around 8'ish. I will try and make chat next week. Can't say for sure as I never know what's going on till the day before or day of so...Forgot to mention yesterday about my arm-it is fine. The thing with it, which is weird, is it can hurt for a few days and quit or it will hurt for weeks or months at a time straight and then nada. Of course there are a few okay days in between sometimes. The pain will still be there just not as strong. But for now, it is fine, knock on wood. I didn't record Rudolph last night but I did watch it-love the old classics. Saw Charlie Brown is coming on next Tuesday-love that one. Of course I have the video so can watch that one anytime. Need to find them as I am in the mood for A Christmas Story and Christmas Vacation.

Anyhoo...getting ready to head to the mall and do a little bit of shopping. Will finish off DD and possibly DS#2. Have no clue what to get DS#1 as he went shopping for things not too long ago and doesn't need anything, silly boy. I will find something though. I told V I want nothing because we have gotten so much in the last two months and that is more than enough, especially with the car. Actually, we are going to decide on an (small) amount and buy each other one thing and I would like to make it a special gift for him, don't know what but figure if I keep looking I will find it. Well, gotta go...try to have a nice day everyone. :wave:

Good Morning Everyone

Jane:wave:
Thankyou once again for your kind words I so appreciated them all,I don't think we can ever be prepared but even though she was making small improvements I knew in my heart.I am happy that we brought her home and had some extra time with her ,but at least I know that she isn't suffering anymore. So happy the girls are over their colds ,and can enjoy the season,I suppose Madison is excited about spending the day with you .Rudolf is such a cute story one I still enjoy watching, but I really am a kid at heart.You are such a good Grandma pausing out all the comercials, did you need to put that finger on ice :lol: You are so productive ,with all your Christmas card done and ready to go,I had better get a move on .I hope I can join you girls in chat next time if you'd like me to .Have a wonderful time today and take care of that finger. PS: Whats all this Boobie talk ,what did I miss, do tell :lol:
Hi Angie:wave:
Thankyou so much ,Its amazing how much heartfelt words can help to heal the heart ,and I appreciate all of them. I am Happy to hear your boys are doing better,and you can enjoy your family now, and only worry about the usual things we all worry about as parents. Have You any snow up there ,whats going on it looks more like spring out , and that really puts a damper on the holiday decorations. Soon enough it will be all white and I suppose we will be complaining about that to eventually :lol: What are your plans for the day ,are you cutting down your Christmas tree single handed ,and chopping the firewood :strong:,You are such a busy lady I can only imagine whats next on your agenda:encore: :encore: Have a great day Angie..
Hi Cristi:wave:
Thankyou again for your warm and thoughtful words, they are greatly appreciated.I am relieved that she will not suffer anymore and she is now under the tree in the garden with her sister Nisa .On a happier note I hope , I will get my pumpkin cheesecake recipe to you and I really do hope you try it and like it.Sounds like you have a busy day planned ,shopping is for the most part is fun except that the malls are so crowded,I hope you find the gifts you are looking for ,some familys member are difficult to buy for aren't they.Its nice that you feel so blessed in your life,what more can you ask for than that.I hope you find a grill to your liking they sure are handy appliances.I am glad your arm is feeling better ,knock on wood , I have some of those lingering aches and pains to that are never ending. Have a great day Cristi.
Hi Katy:wave:
I think your looking mighty fine from here:queen: not so sure about your explanation with all this surgery talk I'm still thinking Swan or at least chickadee but I will believe you ,your children are so cute ,no wonder your MIA where else would you want to be with those faces to look at it, I'm sure they keep you mighty busy as little ones do ,I agree with you about then swans looking like drag queens ,don't you find they all look the same ewwwwww I think if you are going to do anything like that it should be to have a better looking YOU not someone else entirely it must be so weird for their family members don't you think. Any way I hope you get your tummy tuck, our bodies go through so much as woman we deserve to look good,
and it goes a long way to how we feel as well ,now I wish I could do something ,but theres just so much to do:yes: :lol:
Hi Sue:wave:
I am really sorry to hear about your families misfortunes right now ,Its hard as a parent to watch our children suffer,I pray that everything turns around for your family and that everyone is happy. I think its alway harder on the older children since they have a grasp on whats really happening,fortunately the little one can be spared the pain.((( Hugs to you all )))I don't think its appropriate to say have a great day ,under the circumstances but I do hope for happier days for you.
Hi Julie:wave:
Sorry to hear about your bad news,its even harder duriing the holidays when feelings are so magnified.I know that this might sound trivial to you ,but sometime when you least expect it and your stress levels are not so high amazing thing happen .If is meant to be, it will happen ,I know its hard waiting for something you want so bad,it will be all the more prescious when it happens,so keep your hope ups as hard as it seems right now (((HUGS)))
Hi Marti:wave:
ThankYou for your kind words and hugs,I appreciated them so much. Have you decided what you are going to do about going to your Grandpa's house yet. It was good that you finally tracked him down busy man that he is although thats probably really good that he his.Relatives what can you do ,some are just , well there , oh I know theres a word for it , but I can't ,oh maybe I will , no I had better not , lets just say irritating :lol: Don't let anyone put a damper on your day or your life ,do what you think is best for You Jhanai and James and the rest can fight it out among themselves ,decorate your house have a wonderful happy loving experience life is to short for anything less. (((HUGS and don't worry)))Jhanai is absolutely beautiful.
Hi Susan:wave:
Although I don't know much about filing response and all the court jargin I am glad for you that things are moving along on your behalf, there is nothing more prescious than love and happiness ,so do all you can to hold on to what you have found and make it happen .As Katy said this time next year, hopefull y the past will be gone and a new life will have begun . Have a great day.
Hi Mindee:wave:
How are you doing I hope you didn't think we were all ganging up on Tommy ,I think everyone realizes, although , it may not have been the ideal job ,none the less it is a job that could benifit your little family ,till the right one comes along,I hope that everything is going well for you guys , Brandon is such a sweet baby.did you get your Christmas tree up yet? I am anxious to hear about his response to the lights,I'm sure he will be mesmorized by them Have a wonderful day Mindee.:sunny:
Hi to Everyone Elses:wave:
I hope you are all having a wonderful day


*ELLEN*

Hello everyone--

Ellen--I'm so glad that you got to take your kitty home and spend her last moments with her. Whether it be a relative or a loving pet, when it's time to go, being home and surrounded by loved ones is the best way. Sending more hugs your way!

Cristi--Hope to see you next week for chat. But I know what you're saying about not knowing what's going on. I hope you get all your shopping done today. I have yet to figure out what to get James!! That's starting to get to me. I think I better start picking his brain and seeing what he's wanting. I really need to get to town today and shop for necessities.....almost forgot that I needed stuff! :lol:

Jane--My advatar is too small. I need to play around with it more. Now tell me your secret....do you use the Photobucket when you do yours? Thats what I did and I edited it until it fit.....but I don't like the size.....It is different after having my mug shot on there this whole time isn't it?? :lol: But I have to say, I was tired of that picture!!

Sue--Oh my....I wish we could help. Sending you lots of hugs. Divorce is a hard thing to go through. My thoughts are with your family.

Julie--I'm so sorry you didn't get the news you were wanting! Make sure you get a second opinion from another doctor before you start spending money on fertility specialist. You never know, another doctor may find something the first didn't. Big hugs for you Julie!!! (((((HUGS)))))))


Not knowing what I'm doing today ladies......I need to take a shower. Get some bills paid, head over to walmart for some things I need and go to the grocery store for food. So much to do BEFORE work!! And tomorrow I go in early for work so I can get off early!! Yeah!!!

I better get myself going. Time flies when it's limited!! :D

Talk to you all later.

Hi everyone

Just popping in to say that I miss you all, but we hope to be all moved and settled shortly. Trying to get all the fences fixed so that we can move the horses. Get the house all set up.

Well I also will try and get our computer set up this week also.

Kathy

Hi Kathy:wave:
So Glad to hear from you.if you need help mending fences, that sounds funny ,call Angie shes like wonder woman:strong: ,most amazing gal:queen:I have ever heard of.She's multi talented:angel: and has amazing skills:mag:,and Angie of all trades if you will.:genie: I didn't know you were moving ,hope your settled soon ,and have your house all set up in time for Christmas .do you go on sleigh rides with your horses that would be so much fun . Its so good to know you are doing well. have a great night and hope to hear from you again soon *ELLEN*