Good morning ladies,
Time to flip the calendar page to a new month. Since we and just 2 other groups are pretty much the only groups active on the Support Groups page, I'm going to opt not to set up a new thread for February since there is no danger of us sliding down the page and getting lost in the shuffle.
This month should fly by pretty quickly anyway. It's my least favorite month of the year. It's pretty dead here in town and except for the Birkie ski race the 3rd week in, might as well roll up the sidewalks and close up the shades

Also by this time I am tired of winter cold and I usually feel like I will never warm up again, although this year the hot tub is helping with that. My feet are still often like ice.
So, lots of drama at the thrift shop yesterday which I was truly trying to avoid being a part of but got sucked into it anyhow as one side of the drama was my friend whom I feel was only right to defend. And we got a new credit card reader - one that allows for the chip enabled cards. It's not hard to use but it's different - and this is just going to crash the world of some of the cashiers.



I posted a copy of the instructions. I'm sure 1) the copy will get lost within a week and 2) at least 3 cashiers will hose up even the simplest of transactions and heaven forbid if they have to do a refund

Nothing much I can do

My Thai lunch plate was delicious. I am glad that there was a true smaller luncheon portion so I can knock my fitness pal entries in half. The chicken curry was a dry seasoning over rice. The chicken was moist but no rich curry gravy as I expected. The pork ribs had a delicious sweet soy sticky sauce. I got a plate for DH as well and he said after he ate the ribs Nina poked her head into his hand and licked and licked and licked his fingers clean. Nina is a bit off in the head - she does not know how to properly eat a bit of meat off the dish but she just LOVES to lick DH's fingers. I think she got weaned too young

But she approved the sauce. There was a chopped cabbage salad of raw vegetables with just a bit of the most delicious slightly sweet peanut dressing. I swear it reminded me of taffy/caramel apples. Both of us enjoyed that so I will have to recreate that recipe. Fortunately the square of coconut banana cake neither of us liked - it was too mushy - like it was not baked enough so it was easy skipping those unneeded calories. The food smelled wonderful. Even DH said so. And the ladies at the thrift shop were commenting also as I ate my lunch in the back kitchen at the shop. I sort of felt sorry for those going to the senior center for the special of the day "liver and onions"
Good thing I turned the calendar this morning as I forgot I have a cooking class on Thursday. I am hoping it's not going to be a repeat of what we had last week because we were supposed to be doing soups (last minute change of plans for him to fill in) and he kept talking about Virgin Islands cooking that day. And this Thursday is "A Taste of the Virgin Islands". Some of the recipes look a bit too similar.
Not sure if Anne will check in today. She texted me she got home with Sam at 2am. Sam is ok, hurting but resting. Anne was going to take a paid day off to take care of her and get some rest herself. Anne like I said I am saying some prayers that you get a break already - have had far too much worrisome things on your head and your plate lately. You need some good news like a long lost relative's windfall coming your way or even an unexpected refund check or something.

And please don't feel like a failure of a Mom unless you went and abandoned your children when they were 6 months of age to go live the life of a reckless party woman.

It's a different world out there than when we grew up. And when we were younger it was family and friends that influenced us. Besides our own personalities of course. Today with the advent of reality tv and the broadened circle of social media people just think way differently. Sometimes it's really hard for me to understand. I occasionally wonder what I'd be like at 25 in today's world. I'd like to think I'd be the same but probably very much not so. You are a good momma duck, don't beat yourself up if the ducklings frequent a different pond sometimes.
Shad - yes you are right. When one has been as healthy as you it's a shock to the children (or loved ones) that no one is invincible. Also the fact that there might have been a slight brush at losing you - I hope it reinforces the love. Not that there was any doubt about it in the first place, just that sometimes we forget to say out loud what we think in our hearts. I hope the chemo is minimal and quick for you. It seems like when it's done as a precaution, it's not as hard as fighting a stage 3 situation. I REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY wish I could box up some of this cold and snow and send it to you. We are headed to another Canadian cold snap in a few days which will send the thermometer plunging to the single digits (F) again. Shame to keep all this chill to ourselves when you could use some too. Apparently the trade winds never blow north from Antarctica or does New Zealand snatch all the chill before it gets up north to the equator?
Ceejay - this is probably the last year you will have a more complicated tax return. After this it gets way easier and you can get help at the senior centers too. You mentioned a few times you have been feeling blue. Could it be from lack of sunshine? It's been a pretty gray winter up here - tends to shut one down sometimes.
Laura - yes, DH is planning on using the NuStep also. In fact we got the upgraded model mostly for him because it's got the heart rate monitor built into the handles of the machine and it has several programs of varying intensity that is more in his line of interest. As well as a more comfortable seat for his back. It's funny - when you talked about the conductor offering you "a lift" I was thinking in the more traditional sense of a lift being a ride in a car

About the time I left Chicago they were just starting to install the assisted "lift gates" on the busses and they were also in the process of negotiating for new train cars. Funny to think that those "new" train cars are almost 20 years old now.

I stopped taking the train in 1996 when my commuter train ticket from AH was $94.50 a month. Bet it's more now! WOW - I just looked up the fare (which increased today) - it's DOUBLED to $185 and change. Holy smokes! I guess still much cheaper than driving and parking downtown. I sort of feel badly because I knew of 2 people who bought weekly tickets (even though they were more in the long run) because they could not afford the whole $94 in one shot due to their low paying job. Anyway, as usual I digress....

How is your foot doing - getting any sort of relief by staying off it a bit more?
Susie - how was the concert? Are you still trying to use the tread desk at work? I swear I could not focus on walking and trying to do computer/paperwork at the same time. That would be deadly for me

Good job on the hour's treadmill walk.
They have beef stroganoff at the senior center for lunch today. They are trying to get more people to come in and make use of the lunches and Tuesday evening meals. It really is a nutritious and tasty meal they do for the benefit of the community. I love that idea as much as the stroganoff and I'm thinking that one serving would be better than making a pot full at home but I really don't feel like getting out of the house and going into town. I'll be heading out for yoga in 3 hours anyway so might as well hang here and get some laundry done and a bit of picking up. Decisions...
Anyway chicks. Have a good day - the sun is shining for a change so I'm going to stick my face in the window.