Good for you Vanessa, sounds like things are going well.
It's only been 6 or 7 weeks and it has been rocky with my man. I am constantly swaying between ditching and staying, and then he'll be totally lovely and I get sucked in again

The main problem is beer.. he likes it a lot more than a) I do and b) I think he should. I don't think he has an alcohol "problem", I just don't like drinking all the time. Plus just about every disagreement has been the result of intoxication. Sigh. He is really sweet and lovely when he doesn't drink too much.
We'll see - he has been stressed out with his work situation but is starting a new job soon that will keep him busy with construction-type stuff 7 days a week, so maybe that will be good for him.
Am getting a lot of exercise under the sheets if not in the gym (!!) so wt is stable around 62-66kg. I am not counting any type of calories anymore and really not worrying about it, although I do weigh in very often to keep an eye on it and I do cut back if my pants feel tight!