Derry - We definitely want to keep listening to you! That's what we're all here for...to give and get support. This weight loss/fitness gain thing is NOT easy so it's important to have support. As you said, you could've done worse, so that's a plus. I agree with Red. Make a plan before you go. Since you eat out often, maybe research "safe" (and yummy of course) foods at the not so safe restaurants your family likes to go to. Then if you can stay on plan for a week, find some kind of non-food reward (a new book, a manicure, pedicure)...whatever. It doesn't have to be expensive.
Red - All or nothing...that's me too. I used to have a tendency to push myself so hard that I re-injure myself...and I really have to watch that now. Last night, I was so sore I could hardly walk...just from being on my feet too much and doing too much during the day. And of course, when I'm laid up and not able to exercise...do I watch my calories like a hawk? No, I overeat on "comfort food" to "ease" the pain and also the depression of not being able to exercise. You know how to succeed...just pick one or two things that you can do each day. Set yourself up for success.
Here's where I'm at:
3 servings of veggies every day - 19 days complete, 0 pauses left
64 ounces of water every day - 21 days complete, 3 pauses left
15 min of activity - (walking) - 21 days complete, 1 pause left