Cocoa Butter. Not a lotion or anything, but pure, 100% cocoa butter. It will make a huge difference. i read that pure cocoa butter is used by people who live in Africa and are inthe sun constantly. It's great for skin repair - stretch marks, scars, healing form tattoos (not that that's how I know

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Anyway, you can find it in the drug store or wherever, with the lotions. the last I bought came as a stick. It's kinda 'hard' but once you rub it on your skin, the body heat melts it enough to smooth on.
Good luck, and bigtime congratulations on your loss! Keep it up, and buy loits of cocoa butter!