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Originally Posted by Kryss
I absolutely do not understand anyone that would give someone a hard time about his/her weight, then try to "tempt that person off" a diet that is working for them.
It's fear. People don't like change. Plus, when you completely change your eating habits for the BETTER, it makes them look at their own habits. Sometimes that's not an easy thing to accept, and can in turn become a bit of resentment. If you get "tempted" back to the old ways they can justify it to themselves.. "see.. it didn't work, now I'm not wrong". Then there's also the ppl who feel better about themselves if they have someone else they can pick on for something
Even my DH, wonderful and supportive as he is, has come home the last 3 days with iced coffee for me. I can see the lump of sugar in the bottom of the cup and refuse to drink it. He gets a little upset that he has to drink them both.. but hey, just because he "selectively chooses" to forget my WOE when buying coffee doesn't mean I'm giving in. Eventually he'll either stop buying me coffee in the morning, or, he'll bring it home sugar free and I can add my own splenda. This is too important to me to give in.
He's also a little upset that I won't go visit his grandparents with him before they leave for Florida. PFFFT.. yeah, sure. Let's go see the b#%!* who critisizes me for everything under the sun, especially my weight, but will be all mad if I refuse to eat 3 plates of her pasta (Italian family). They absolutely would NOT understand SBD. So, I'll stay home, he and the kids can go visit and stuff themselves silly. I know it's hard for him to accept sometimes, but my life CAN'T revolve around eating crap anymore.
The point I'm getting to is this: to **** with everyone else, do what's right for you! They'll come around eventually.
Heather