Laurie, you are sooooo right about not knowing who to trust, and who not to trust. At the spot that I am at right now, it is a bit difficult to skip around the diet comments. I have started to wear skinny clothes and I'm trying to refrain from wearing the baggy things that I thought covered up the fat. Consequently, I have received a number of comments about how great I look. AND, you know what, I love it. I still try to dance around revealing the diet, but I will sit down with someone if they are truly interested in finding out for themselves. That person really does need to be persistent with me, though.
It is interesting that you transferred the 'trashing' of the diet into a personal trashing of you. But, when you think about it, that is exactly right. If people trash your weight loss program, they are really trashing you and your intellect. I was acutally one of those people (I have the original Atkins book that gives my heart a reason to skip a beat) until my doctor made the initial recommendation to cut carbs and sugar and that gave me cause to pause and refelct - and also research the low/no carb eating programs. After reading SBD - along with validating its claims - I was convinced that it was the program for me. It is now, for me, a WOE that will follow me the rest of my life. What actually makes me really upset is that I used to eat a number of off program foods because we were taught that they were healthy. Now I know that they just made me fat, and it burns me even more to know that I really don't like those food, just ate them because they were good for me.
However, I am anticipating that I will be down to goal within the next couple of weeks and it will be on to Phase 3 and a liftetime WOE on the beach.