Femme - I've been to get the second opinion - that Dr. agreed, but stretched it out to about 10 years. He also thought I had Meralgia Paresthetica - and wanted me to go to a Neurologist to have a nerve conduction/EMG study done. I had that done, and got a confirmed diagnosis of MP.
I'm going for a 3rd opinion in Sept about my back though. This is not something I take lightly. My younger sister had a fusion done about 2 years ago, and is still out of work. The surgery worked, but because of comp., she had to put off the surg. till it was almost too late, and there was extensive damage. My sister was in bed for close to 3 months after the surgery... There is no way I want that. AND she had a 13 month old at the time. (My niece is adopted. A pregnancy and my sister's back wouldn't go well together)
If the 3rd Neurosurgeon says surg. then I'm going to have to decide what to do. I'm not looking fwd. to going under the knife, but I'd rather have the surg. done before there is too much damage. I'm of the opinion that if they are willing to do it, and I am healthy (and thin enough

) for them to do it, I'd rather get it done with, before I do more serious damage.