I remember SO much not wanting to deal with other people when I had my surgery. I didn't want to hear one word about their opinions about my weight, how I got fat, why I was fat, what I had done in the past, how many diets I'd tried, why I was having the surgery, how THEY thought my life would change, all of it.
I think its really hard to share with strangers that are close enough to have contact with but not really friends. On the other hand, you can find some real diamonds in the mix that are outstanding in their support and compassion and understanding who are just willing to walk a few steps on the road with you.
Good luck.
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