GOOD for you CHUCKIEB~
I quit 7 years ago, at the age of 45, after smoking about 2 packs or more a day for 30 years. I tried cold turkey MANY times ~ too many withdrawl pains! I tried SMOKE~ENDERS twice ~ a great program but I didn't let it work for me, it did work for my ex-wife 100%. I tried the gum many years ago, but tried to smoke "just a little" too.
What finally worked for me was the absolute desire to quit first. Then I just made myself chew the gum, after a couple of days the edge was off by getting the nicotine in my system. That way I could work on the other aspects of quiting smoking such as smoking after meals (went for a short walk instead) ~ smoking for "recreation"

( I tried walking a 5K with my wife and kids the second day I quit) ~ it took me an hour and a half, I was able to get that time down to 26 minutes after 18 months by jogging!
I will admit that I chewed more gum than I was supposed to, and was probably addicted to it for a year ~ but it did help me to realize I didn't have to smoke, I felt way better not having the "crap" in me.
I switched to the patch ~ started chewing sugar free gum ~ then after 3 days of the patch I just said FORGET IT! and threw it out. I chew a few packs of Eclipse gum every day for the oral fixation but I have NEVER ~ EVER had the desire to smoke

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Good luck to you!