Yep, I can relate. Sugar and refined carbs are everywhere! What works for me is to not avoid it completely, but severely limit it compared to what I used to eat. The more time that goes by, I find that smaller amounts satisfy me. Since Jan., our family has had a baby shower, a wedding, and six birthday parties, and at each event I have eaten less cake than the event before. I even bypassed the dessert at a conference in late January because, after taking a tiny taste, I didn't think the quality was worth it.