I'd like to join you too if that's ok

I will warn you however that I've been a bit of a failure lately, both with my dieting and exercise

Just haven't been able to get motivated. I always start off well, but after a week or two I lose my motivation to carry on ... now I realise that we're about to start the third month of the year and I'm still in the same position that I was in when the year started!
I recently joined a challenge thread thinking that it would help to keep me motivated ... all the other ladies on there were really enthusiastic and doing so well, I simply couldn't keep up with them and it made me feel like a failure when I didn't do as well as them ... it made me feel under too much pressure to compete ... and I don't want to have to compete with others ... I simpy need to do it at my own pace. Does that make sense?
Anyway, this thead sounds like a good place for me to come without feeling under pressure to compete with anyone else ... just start off at my own pace and slowly build up. I plan to simply walk for exercise and gradually increase my speed/distance.
Due to my husband being on medication for high blood pressure, and the fact that I have a family history of high blood pressure, we have both just started to follow an eating plan to help him lower his, and hopefully to prevent me from getting it.
So, I'm just starting a new healthy eating plan, and tomorrow is the start of a new month when I plan to seriously get into walking ... without any pressure.
I look forward to coming here regularly to both give and receive encouragement and support.