Dating sure makes it hard to lose weight!!

My now husband gained about 60 pounds during the 1 1/2 years we dated. I pretty much stayed the same. We only saw each other on weekends, so I really don't think the times we did eat out make him gain so much. (More that he's in a sedentary job now.)
Anyhow... I don't know if you've read the Calorie Queens thread, but this is a great book to read. It's $12.95 at local bookstores and less online. The basic concept is to find out how many calories your body needs to consume at your GOAL weight and then using that number as your daily caloric intake. The premise is that you are practicing maintenance during the weight loss phase so that when you do get to your goal weight, you'll be able to stay there because you are already eating what your body needs. Take your goal weight and multiply it by 12. So 130 x 12 = 1560 calories. What should you eat? Well, since you've been following the SBD, you really already know what to eat, but nothing is really off limits, but you do need to account for the calories. As someone pointed out on another thread, you could lose weight by eating 1500 calories of donuts -- but your body wouldn't be healthy.
A lot of people use FitDay.com to log their food intake, exercise, etc. It's a free website. I use BalanceLog on my computer and PDA. (Not free and about $50 for both.) BalanceLog also has a website to input food and exercise in case I'm not at my computer and my PDA isn't with me (which really never happens). This works for me because in order to stay on top of this, I have to have my tools with me. It's also nice because if I'm journaling my food at a restaurant, no one else needs to know that's what I'm doing. (As opposed to a handwritten food journal.) I say, do whatever works for YOU!
There's a good pocket size book of calorie counts put out by Calorie King. It's about $8 at amazon. Nice small size and it really has a lot of information. There's a new 2006 version.
Does this help any??
Kimberly