Hi Anita!

I think you have the right attitude, if they don't like it, they starve!

You need to think of your own health, and you kids are certainly old enough that they can eat healthy meals...I mean as opposed to just the stuff they like...you're beyond chicken fingers and mac & cheese!
There are plenty of yummy foods out there that they need to try! Maybe get creative with the veggies? Make a turkey meatloaf with pureed veggies in it? Chili with veggies in it? Casseroles made with FF cream soups...that makes veggies taste good!