Good going, CA85!
Hey, have you tried Edamame? If you get the frozen pods, just boil them in salted water for a couple minutes, then put them in a bowl and salt them. Put out a clean bowl and you and your friends can have a great time opening the pods, eating the soybeans and putting the shells in the bowl (don't eat the shells, they'll make you feel pretty yucky!). They are soooo good! This is really common in Japan, I guess...it's their version of peanuts and popcorn. They like to eat it when they're watching baseball games!
I hope you can find some great healthy ways to make your social life less about food or make the food healthier. In the meantime, it sounds like you're making some great changes and people are noticing.