NEED opinions :) - 3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community

CurvaceousCutie · 10-12-2005, 11:39 PM

Hi everyone,

I need some opinions. I had this guy ask me out
(which is great) but for our first date he wants to go to a haunted house!!! I HATE haunted houses like i dont like ppl jumping out at me a scaring the living **** out of me

lol I want to go out with him but just not there ive been trying persuade him to go somewhere else but he doesnt get the hint. The million dollar ? is SHOULD I go to the haunted house with him????

glasgow314 · 10-12-2005, 11:47 PM

I think you should just be honest and tell him you don't like haunted houses. If you really like him and he still insist on going I would go. Just relax and have a good time. Don't worry about being embarressed about being scared. But maybe he will take a buddy to the haunted house and the two of you can do something else. You can never tell with a man though. Good luck!!

glasgow314 · 10-12-2005, 11:49 PM

hey I just notice that we wiegh about the same and have the same goal. Keep in touch and we can motivate each other.

LockItUp · 10-13-2005, 12:29 AM

I feel ya on the haunted house thing. I hate them, I hate the feeling of being startled, it just pisses me off. I guess it depends on really how much you hate it. If you think you can stand it, go. If you think it will just be really unplesant and you won't enjoy yourself at all, tell him exactly that, otherwise being a guy and all, he'll think you're being a cutesie girl!

Congrats on your weight loss so far, you're doing awesome!!!

squishy1 · 10-13-2005, 12:48 AM

Ooooh, I would love that! I would go, but that's only because haunted houses and spooky things like that fascinate me. You, though, should be honest with him. If he really wants to go out with you then he shouldn't have a problem with going somewhere else. He might even think your fear is kinda cute!

If you really like him, maybe you should consider going. Couldn't be too bad, could it? At least you'll have him there to latch on to! It might end up being kinda fun. Or it could be a totally horrible experience.

You'll only know if you give it a try

But, as I said before, if you're really, really scared of things like that, just be honest with him. Good luck!!
Let us know how it turns out!

CurvaceousCutie · 10-13-2005, 10:22 AM

thanks guys for you input. I will keep you guys posted and tell you if i went or not. Glasgow314, im going to need some motivation keep in touch.

trnsfrmnreplace · 10-13-2005, 05:15 PM

Yes, you should be honest with him. I hate haunted houses also.. hahah.
BUT think of the opportunities. You get scared, you get closer to him, just go behind him and hold on tight and close your eyes, that always helps, and it's a good laugh at the end.

Congrats on the date!

glasgow314 · 10-24-2005, 01:07 PM

Hello, I was just wandering if you went out with him or turned him down.

AutumnJoy · 10-24-2005, 03:57 PM

This is a first date... I would go and take the oppertunity to snuggle up on him. Isn't the whole point of a haunted house to get freaked out?? You should tell him that you are scared, but you will go with him - only if he protects you. It shows him that you are into him and that you are willing to try new things (or retry). Maybe you before/after you can go someplace of your choosing.

mandy71480 · 10-24-2005, 08:25 PM

I agree with Autumn- totally use it as an opportunity to get close

TamLynne · 10-24-2005, 09:51 PM

I personally wouldn't do it.. but thats cause I am terrified of haunted houses. I would make a fool out of myself. But I do agree with the other girls.. its a chance to get close and hold on tight!

Let us know how it goes!