Rewards,,,for me that is very difficult to comprehend.
I tend to be a very focused individual, that, when I make a decision - like the decision to lose weight - nothing can sway me from the outcome. However, the decision to actually do it is the part that is more difficult.
While on the program, DH buys me flowers for every 10 pounds that I lose. I really do appreciate that he takes the time to do something special, but the truth is that I would lose the weight, regardless, because I have made the decision and am determined to do it well. I tend to be a very intrinsic individual and gain satisfaction from a job well done.
Now this isn't necessarily a good thing. For example, I supervise several people at work. In doing that, I have to keep reminding myself to tell these people that they are doing a good job and to reward them in special ways for the things that they do. This is not a natural thing for me, because I don't understand why people don't already know they are doing a good job, but I am getting better at it.
For rewards on SBD...hey the better health, better stamina, and, oh yeah, the sexier body are enough.
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