Welcome, Flyby35!
Good work making the decision to change things to improve your health. That part is often not easy for anyone! I think it makes a lot of sense to not want to be obese for the rest of your life (same here), and to do something about it. Congrats on becoming vegan! It's a very conscious, helpful way to live.
On this site there are several more active threads in various areas of the forum. Some are challenges (weight loss, habit changes, exercise, etc.), some are daily accountability and support, some are support for getting out of certain weight 'decades', some support for different health issues (depression, binge eating, diabetes, etc.). Take a look around and see what works for you.
We're glad to have you!