Hey girlie. Welcome.

what I have noticed what works for me is this:
1. I allow myself to eat fun foods (cookies,cake,greasy sandwiches) as long as I eat a small portion. and I am talking like 1 little cookie, or a 1/2 of a 1/2 of sandwich. When i was cutting out all fun foods I got so sad, and than when i lost enough weight i binged and gained all the weight back. So I think allowing a little here and there helps.
2. I watch my dairy, red-meat and flour intake. For me I dont eat any flour, unless its a small little piece of cake. I dont cook pasta at home and no bread. I bloat real bad with processed flour and breads. Red-meat is great but i try to limit that to once a week or twice.
3. Lots of water before a meal. I can eat for 3 people but i try not to anymore. When I feel hungry I drink a huge glass of water. If im still hungry I drink one more and if i still am after that I eat.

4. I dont do any crazy water, juice or 500 calories a day diet. That for me doesnt work and in the end you just hate your diet. I try to make changes that I know I will stick with for life.
Hope this helps. Im am here for u girl and I am sure the rest above are too..