Im so lost right now. My fiancée just told me after 2 years that he loves me but is not in love with me.

No warning, I had no idea he felt like this until he left a few hours ago.

I'm torn and heartbroken and have nobody to talk to.

*hugs* I'm so sorry.

I'm sorry you're going through a tough time. Take some time to heal and love yourself. "Hugs"

*hugs*

i'm sorry, darlin'. break ups, ESPECIALLY the ones involving longterm relationships and happen out of the blue, are the worst.

like echo said, take some time for YOU and remember that you've got an incredible support system here at 3FC.

much love.

Thank you. Im so tired but can't sleep. I can't even bring myself to go to my bedroom.

Nothing says you have to sleep...

I went through more or less the same thing this summer: 6 year relationship, several years of engagement, no more feelings. It's going to be hard, even close to unbearable, sometimes, but know that it gets better. One piece of advice that helped me is to stay busy- not so busy that you don't let yourself feel the pain at all, but busy enough that you can't wallow in it day and night. I know very little anyone says to you right now is going to make you feel different, but we're here if you want to talk.

I'm so sorry. Spend this time focusing on you and healing.

I am so sorry you are going through this break up.

In every situation keep looking for the positive. You are now available to meet the right person. You are so strong!

MANY (hugs) as the others have said feel the pain but don't lose all hope FOCUS ON YOU . Better now than spending $$ for the wedding being in the marriage & then he "discovers this" (hugs) again. There is someone out there for you <3

I am very sorry you are hurting right now. There are many of us that have been through similar things. Just lean on the people here and don't give up on you.

So sorry to hear! . Be kind to yourself. As others have said, you're not alone.

I am so so sorry you are suffering. Please be good to yourself.

I believed my second husband loved me, it was bedrock, and then he told me he did not and my world changed in an instant from something I knew and relied on absolutely to something I did not know at all. I understand your devastation and all I can say, little as it seems, is .. you still have you, that is your bedrock and please trust in you.

Man... I can't even imagine how that feels... I can't believe someone can just do that! That's so horrible!
Surely though, as aforementioned, this will make you a very strong person afterwards, you'll just need to endure it and pull through, just for a while. Yes, take your time recovering, but don't do anything rash or harsh on yourself, something you'll regret. Remember that there are still people out there who love you and care about you.