I went through more or less the same thing this summer: 6 year relationship, several years of engagement, no more feelings. It's going to be hard, even close to unbearable, sometimes, but know that it gets better. One piece of advice that helped me is to stay busy- not so busy that you don't let yourself feel the pain at all, but busy enough that you can't wallow in it day and night. I know very little anyone says to you right now is going to make you feel different, but we're here if you want to talk.
MANY (hugs) as the others have said feel the pain but don't lose all hope FOCUS ON YOU . Better now than spending $$ for the wedding being in the marriage & then he "discovers this" (hugs) again. There is someone out there for you <3
I am very sorry you are hurting right now. There are many of us that have been through similar things. Just lean on the people here and don't give up on you.
I am so so sorry you are suffering. Please be good to yourself.
I believed my second husband loved me, it was bedrock, and then he told me he did not and my world changed in an instant from something I knew and relied on absolutely to something I did not know at all. I understand your devastation and all I can say, little as it seems, is .. you still have you, that is your bedrock and please trust in you.
Man... I can't even imagine how that feels... I can't believe someone can just do that! That's so horrible!
Surely though, as aforementioned, this will make you a very strong person afterwards, you'll just need to endure it and pull through, just for a while. Yes, take your time recovering, but don't do anything rash or harsh on yourself, something you'll regret. Remember that there are still people out there who love you and care about you.
I have no one to talk to.......fiancé is now an ex
Spend this time focusing on you and healing.
. Be kind to yourself. As others have said, you're not alone.
