Hey Wierdo (mind if I just call you "W" - it just seems, well, WEIRD to be calling someone a "Wierdo"

) I have the same problem you do - I CAN'T keep stuff like cookies, candies, etc. around the house. In fact, except for Sunday (my free day) I avoid stuff with refined sugar in it whenever possible. I know myself well enough to know that once a box of cookies is opened, heck, even if it's IN THE HOUSE, most of it will be in my mouth sooner rather than later! So...I just don't keep that stuff in the house.
In addition, the reason I avoid sugary stuff during the week is that I can't 'just have a little bit'. IMO sugar is truly an addictive substance. It doesn't quell your hunger - it just makes me want to eat more. I find that the longer I stay away from it, the less I crave it.
That being said...here's some stuff I do...
* I don't know if you have a See's Candies store in your area - but did you know you can buy pieces individually? Sometimes on Sunday (again, that's my free day), hubby and I will go to the local See's and each buy two pieces of our favorite selections (they also give you a free sample, Jim generally gets that

). That way I'm not stuck with a box of Nuts & Chews calling my name in the freezer...if you're not fortunate enough to have a See's in your town, I believe Godiva also sells candies a piece at a time. (See's is way better IMO!)
* Another favorite treat for me and hubby is a frozen yogurt cone - our local frozen yogurt store has Carbolite brand yogurt in six ever-changing flavors. We make a mini-date of it - since the yogurt store is on the other side of town, we drive or ride our bikes there...order a cone apiece...and sit down and enjoy it together. And voila - no leftovers! (if you don't have a frozen yogurt store, McDonald's vanilla cone will do fine).
Okay, so you're asking me now - what about during the week when I want a sweet satisfying treat? With emphasis on the "Satisfying" part of course...I gotta tell ya, the best thing you can eat to satisfy cravings is PROTEIN and (healthy) FAT (I'm not asking you to melt a stick of butter and eat it though). Unfortunately the "Soy Protein" SlimFast has some pretty low-quality protein in it - and if you drink the canned stuff, it has been heated so what protein is in it has been 'denatured' or broken down. Some evening when you want a sweet treat, try this...
1 cup low-fat cottage cheese (I like Knudsen brand in the pink container)
2 tablespoons dry sugarfree Jello instant pudding mix (vanilla or chocolate)
Splenda or Equal and Vanilla extract to taste.
Optional additions:
1 tablespoon natural peanut butter (either chunky or smooth - whatever one you like - this is optional BTW).
1/4 cup dry oatmeal
Blend all the above together in a blender or use a hand blender until smooth. Yummy! Even if you LOATHE cottage cheese you will probably love this.
Adding the peanut butter and oats gives it a kind of 'cookie-dough' feel. Give it a try sometime!
Also, instead of the peanut butter and oats, try adding some light yogurt...blend blend blend together and then stick it in the fridge for about 1/2 hour or so...you'll get kind of a cheesecake texture.