I'm losing on 1,600-1,800 cals. I will eat 1,800 calories on days that I have good workouts at the gym or If it's a special occasion or something. I'm 5'6" and 208 pounds and I'm lightly active.
Try tapes at home! I hate working out too but I started with a walk 4 miles at home tape and I really enjoy it now. I make the gym whenever I can (usually 2-3 times a week) and I don't put pressue on myself. I'd much rather work out for an hour a day and be able to eat a few more calories