HBR, welcome, glad to have you join us. I can't really shed any light on why you aren't losing, because I tend to gain/lose the same 5 lbs also

, but I suggest you look for a Challenge or Support group to join; small check-in groups make it easier to connect, get involved, and be accountable. We have groups centering around specific diet plans, themes, or age groups, so find one that inspires you and just post to join! Be sure to check out the 40-somethings and Dieting with Obstacles