WELCOME....You'll find a great bunch of people here. You have the right attitude...This has to be a lifestyle change. A lot of plans will work quickly. However, you want something you can do or maintain at some level for the rest of your life.
There are a lot of us who've tried and failed on plans that weren't sustainable (ask me why I thought I could juice with the hollywood diet for a year????) Remember, one day at a time, one meal at a time, one pound at a time. I'm still pushing forward myself. Cheering you on to goal