Hi--I'm a newbie

  • Hi all!!

    So I've done the whole online support group before. The problem is that before, the other participants shunned me because I wasn't "fat enough." Everyone told me that I just should be happy with my weight and since I have only ten pounds to loose, I didn't really need the online support. I am hoping that this site and the participants will be more accepting of me and all other girls. I struggle with my weight, I cry myself to sleep at night, and I don't wear shorts because I cannot stand the idea of people looking at me. I'm in this whirlpool of unhappiness too and I just really need a friend.

    Thanks to anyone who read the whole post.
    kelsey
  • Welcome and good luck reaching your goal! I've only been here a couple of days, but it's already been helping! (I'm so stranger to the whirlpool of unhappiness, myself)

    I don't see why anyone would shun you, 10 lbs is hard for anyone to lose regardless of what size you are.
  • Welcome to 3FC!
  • Well, if it makes THEM feel better, say this is the last 10 pounds of the 50 you want to take off -- maybe that'll stop them in their tracks. Seriously tho, there's a section here just for you. You'll find all the support you need. Good luck.
  • Welcome to 3FC =)

    We've had members join needing to lose all sorts of numbers of weight. From a couple of pounds, to... well... more than a couple We've even had members join who didn't want to lose -any- weight and merely wanted to improve their fitness level or to learn to eat healthier. This really is a well-rounded board that way.

    There's even a section of the forums to help those who only have a little bit to lose. It's the Featherweights area, and I'm positive that you'll find it very cozy to be there.

    Good luck with your goals!
  • Thank you everyone!! This makes me feel much better and motivated