I just posted a reply in the other thread, but I'll say welcome again here!

We're in such a similar place - my blood sugar keeps testing fine, but there's Type II diabetes in my family and I'm terrified of it! There's also a lot of heart disease - my father, his father, and his father all had heart attacks in their 40s and 50s, and my father's was the only one that wasn't fatal (though it did result in a quintuple bypass). Bottom line, we have LOTS of reasons to work hard and stay motivated to lose weight and get healthier, and hopefully with that success we'll see some progress with the baby making as well.

I know we can do it!
Edited to say:
I don't know if this appeals to you at all, but I saw a thread on here last night that I found SO encouraging. Let's see if I can post a link... ok, I don't have enough posts yet, and so can't post a link. But go to the Calorie Counters forum (a subforum in the Diet Central section), and look for the thread titled "Calorie Counters Before & After Pics". I was so inspired that I took "before" photos last night (in a bathing suit no less - completely horrific!!!!!), and I.can't.wait. to be able to take better and better ones as I progress!