@ stacygee its on mystyle network!
@ MedChick87 her attitude sums it all up, shes not even mad at her family well rather her mom, she is defiantly someone to look up too and learn from.

yeah i saw emily she looked awesome!!
@ mkendrick where Tanisha mom is concerned i just feel sad for her (not sympathetic but sad) you know i think she is just plain blind, you would have to be.i can see she loves her daughter, hopefully when she sees the tape it will hit her like a ton of bricks, you know when you see yourself doing stuff unhealthy/abusive/in denial. whatever the case may be seeing /hearing yourself doing it can be a real eye opener and i hope that is what happens in this case. and if that doesn't happen i hope that Tanishas example will get to her!

as far as Scott goes i agree his mom needs to cut those apron strings, im having a hard time myself with this. i have a 14 year old and i have been struggling trying to find that line where i need to back up or not. i don't coddle though i tend to be way to hard on my son i need to start cutting him a little slack and let him make some of his own choices because he needs to learn now BEFORE hes 18.
a lot of the parents seem to be enablers or don't want to seem to do thier part in helping the kids with food, my oldest has a slight weight problem, nothing like the kids on tv but he has always been very little then he was on meds for awhile and after we took him off he gained like 20 pounds in 2 months , we thought it would even itself out but he seems to be an emotional eater now, and i have caught him hiding food, what i try to do as a mother is to NOT talk about diets or anything like that. i tell my 2 oldest its about eating fruits and veggies and basically good foods and not stuffing yourself (that's a big one i try to teach) i have taught them our bodys need water more than anything else so soda and juices are every once in a while at our house. and more then anything my 2 oldest are at that awkward stage so i tell them their body is still changing and growing so as long as they do the above things there is nothing to ever worry about your body will settle at where it needs to be!
@ shannonmb uhhhh yeahhhh the pants thing kinda disturbed me as well, if i even attempted to do that to my 14 year old he would be like MOM WHAT ARE YOU DOING then he would shoo me away like i got this mom!!! now i know in Scotts case he couldn't see, and my son has asked me to help him in the past when he wasn't capable , nothing to intimate, one time when he wasn't cleaning his body well enough he was getting a sore in a private area and wanted me to check it out i know i know tmi, but even then he was like 10 or so now that he is 14 yeah no he would look at me like i was crazy i don't even think the (boy iv cleaned your butt from day 1) talk would make a difference especially on national tv!!
@ fattymcfatty ditto on tanisha, i might do that when i get to goal