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Originally Posted by Eliana
Is this true, that some plus-sized women don't like changing in the same room as thinner women? I'm sure there are a few out there, but enough to justify ghettoizing all plus-sized women?
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I'm not sure it's the thin women, but the way changing rooms are designed for thin women. I hate when changing rooms are so so small it feels like changing in a phone booth. "Swingy" doors are also a nuisance when the room is so small (while you're wriggling into a garment, you end up wriggling the door open).
If the stalls are roomy, I don't even think of the size of the other women. However, 20 years or so ago many mall stores had changing rooms that weren't really private rooms at all. It was just a huge room with a few partitions with mirrors, but no doors (so everyone saw each other changing). I haven't been in those stores since, so I don't know if they still exisit.
I've never been super comfortable changing in front of other women. Locker rooms still make me somewhat nervous when there's a huge mix of body types. At the warm water therapy pool I'm stilll a little self-conscious (but much less so). Because most of the other women are old, fat, and/or scarred, I feel like I don't always have the worst/ugliest body there.
My mom is changing room phobic (every time she tries on clothes she gripes the entire time, about how much she hates trying clothes on). It's not uncommon for her to buy clothes, try them on at home and return them if they don't fit. When my sisters or I shop with her, we nag her into trying clothes on, and one of us has to go into the fitting room with her for moral support (and to hear the incessant griping).