He's good Jiffy,
And he's not hard to look at either!!!!!
Zap, I am loving my "total gym" it targets every part of your body. Still waiting for the results, but I will keep you informed.
Good Luck Zap and congratulations on having the confidence in yourself to go out and buy that bathing suit. This is half if not more, of the battle we are faced with. We do NOT accept ourselves at the point we are at and that none acceptance turns into self pity and the pity turns into failure.
I know, I have lived my life like this and missed out on so many things. My children are grown now and they just recently said something that made me feel so bad. They said they wished that I had played with them in the water at the beach, instead I sat under the umbrella with a long beach dress on. I was there, but always tried to hide. They wished I had gone to the water park with them when dad took them. In the summer my poor husband felt like a divorced dad because if it had anything to do with water, or having my body exposed, I wouldn't do it. Here's the worst part about all of this and why I said we must accept ourselves at that moment. I weighed about 150 (5'4") while my children were small, and I thought I was FAT! OMG! How selfish and pathetic was I ????? Never being happy about the way I looked only put me into self pity mode which in turn escalated my weight to where I am now. I have gained 60 pounds and at age 50, I am finally working on loving myself and taking each day as it comes. It is very, very hard but I finally realized you can NEVER get back those days when you wished you did what you didn't do!!!! I am bound and determined not to miss out on any of those "water" days with my grandchildren!!! So go for it and enjoy all those precious moments with your children. It's a good thing I live in New England, because I made up for it in the winter when I could cover up!!

I should of moved to Afganistan
You keep up the great job!!!! ~~~~~~~~Meg