Dear Lauralyn, please don't get discouraged, I did and I put myself back at Start

Last January (or February) I joined a gym, I also worked out religiously (every other day) to my new tapes: Hip Hop Abs. After four months of doing it all and the scale not moving at all, I gave up completely. That was a very stupid thing to do



When I started the Hip Hop Abs, I started with the 20 minute routine, then I was able to move up to the 30 minute, then 40 minute routines. My stomach started to go down but because the stupid scale did not move I threw away all that work.

Naturally, I have 100% regret at this point.
I saw some pictures of myself and it broke my heart that that was me. It's no wonder I was getting so many looks of pure shock last year on summer vacation.
anyway, I printed those photos out and put them up by my bed as a reminder. They are not depressing me as much as they are making me angry and that anger is keeping me motivated so far.
I have started doing the Hip Hop Abs 20 minute routine again (so far only twice this week) as I have just started walking again. I am trying to promise myself that on days I don't work out that I will take a walk. It's kind of hard for me now because I can't walk around in my new location, I have to drive to my old neighborhood to do it and my car has been in the shop since the week before Thanksgiving.
Anyway, I quit the gym last year after only about 3 months of attempting it. Mainly because they did not have any of the classes they promised when I joined.
So I quit the Hip Hop Abs and the gym at the same time and cannot express my regret enough. Now I see myself in what you have said, the workouts are working because you have been able to progress with what you are doing it's just that confounded scale that forces us to throw away all our hard work and effort. So, I urge you not to make the same mistake I did. Up to this point it's been the sorriest thing I've ever done. I went to the mall today with my mom and made the mistake of trying on clothes, I literally stood in the dressing room and cried, I had the most huge pair of jeans from the rack and they didn't go up.
So remember as hard as this seems right now, it would be harder to have to start over again. It's harder to look at yourself with self-loathing and disgust for too long. And it's just not worth it. Please don't give up. If you feel it's not working then trade in what you are doing but don't stop!! Trade in the time on the treadmill for a real walk or the time on the treadmill for the same amount of time in front of a workout video BUT DON'T GIVE UP COMPLETELY!!!
It's easier to fight yourself than it is to fight the fat. Don't let it win.
I wait for the day when I feel like this guy again: