hey Charlene!
Have you found the "Brides to Be" thread in "Miscellaneous Clubs" yet? Great group of girls all getting ready for the big day (I was one of the original brides to be...married last April). Congratulations on the impending wedding...such an exciting time!
You also may want to visit our Weight Watchers forums, or our 100 lb Club, or the 300 Plus club...all of them might be great fits for you. Post in one or many of them...most of all, just keep posting!
Can't wait to hear more from you soon!