Hi there! You remind me so much of myself it isn't even funny. I have just moved from a casual maybe-we-might-get-serious relationship to a committed relationship (though we aren't engaged). I've been overweight my whole life and having a man who thinks I'm amazing just makes me want to be even more amazing for him. I'm sick of being fat! The first thing I did was go out and get my own DDR set, because I love it and I used to play on a friend's before I graduated from college. It is such good exercise! I also realized, just like you, that I was eating way more than I thought. I can't believe how much food I've been eating! I've only been on FitDay for a couple of days, but I'm already changing my eating habits just because it's so satisfying to achieve my goal of eating fewer than 2000 calories a day (though I'm a little hungry, since my body hasn't quite adjusted to it yet).
It's really nice to meet you, and go you! We don't have to be fat anymore!