Sorry cbmare, my computer took a dump on me last week! Finally up and running again
My "dad" didn't raise me, I didn't meet him til I was 18. First started talking to him when I was 16, about a year after I was placed in foster care. We have an okay relationship, we aren't close by any means. I think I hurt him last summer when I found all this out, I was told that he knew about all this and I was miffed. Turns out he didn't know. SO, I am working on repairing the damage
And I do worry a bit about the medical stuff too, mostly cause of my daughter.