We visited my grandmother in the afternoon and took her cookies and some other food. My grandfather died on Christmas eve in 1979, and Christmas has been hard for her ever since, understandably. She was invited to my mom's for dinner, but decided to stay in, and I was worried about her being alone and sad. Then we had a nice dinner at home and watched Elf and It's a Wonderful Life. The kids checked Santa's progress on NORAD, and decided they'd better get to bed, but it took a while for them to go to sleep. Anyway, now Santa has been, and it's all downhill from here. By the way, DH fell asleep and I got to do it all!
Anyway, I just wanted to say that definitely one of my best presents this year is all the new friends I found at 3fc, and I'm so grateful for all the help, support, and advice! Whether you celebrate Christmas or not, I hope every one of you has a wonderful day tomorrow with the people you love.








I had a rough day yesturday and today doesn't seem much better. Seems all I can do is think about my dad not being here and then all I do is eat or cry or both. 


