For me what has been working is a combination of counting calories and exercising. My calories range between 1400-1600,sometimes a little less. I don't drink any sodas, don't eat fried foods, I don't drink coffee, or tea.
Today's meal is like this
Breakfast- Kash go lean crunch cereal with skim milke( 1/2 cup each) and 5 ounces of grapefruit juice
Lunch - 2 veggie burgers( no bread), with pickled onions( central american style) and a tsp of ff sour cream
Dinner - Veggie soup
snacks - I have fresh mango

, tlc bars, or ff vanilla yogurt and I add frozen blueberries.
I do allow myself a bar of dark chocolate once in a while, yesterday I ate 2 meringues( they have no fat , 20 calories, but lots of sugar),but it was a treat). I do not punish myself, because if I do not allow myself some treats once in a while( not everyday like before, but once a week, once a month, or whenever), but for the most part I am eating ok and feeling great.
cheryl