I've been trolling the internet for a few weeks looking for a site like this one. I've been reading the posts for about four days now, and really feel like this is where I belong.
Right now, I feel strong, ready, and invincible (and just had a very satisfying, low-cal meal). My rational self, though, knows that I have to prepare myself for when I won't feel as tough. I am an all-or-nothing kind of gal, so I easily get discouraged and wonder if it's worth it. ScrappyChick's discussion of her sister's gastro surgery really got my attention, though, because my sister is considering lap-band surgery once she gives birth in about three months. I am not sure how I feel about it. I would be so happy for her if she loses the weight, but it's seems so extreme.
I am looking forward to joining the points challenge. I am very much in need of some accountability.
Laurie! This is a great site, and VERY positive (which is what I personally was looking for).
There's the points challenge, and a bunch of us are brainstorming about another challenge.
I understand your ambivalence about your sister's possible surgery; it's a very personal decision. I've considered it, but want to see what I can do and maintain myself. It's definitely a huge step to take.
Welcome Laurie,
There are a great bunch of women here,with very inspiring stories.
Congrats on the weight loss so far. I have never considered any kind of surgery for weight loss, I would probably put the weight right back on, thinking I could eat lots of food because I look thinner. this is the way for me now.
Welcome, Laurie! Glad you're here! As time goes on I think you'll like it more and more. Believe me, I know about those times when it just doesn't seem worth the effort. But if you stick close to this site you will really notice that those times are few and far between, if at all! I have found that just reading what everyone writes each day keeps me very aware of how worth it it is!
Hi and welcome. I am also an all or nothing person.
I really think it's just the opposite though. It is sooo incredibly worth it. The rewards far outweigh the sacrifices - by a real lot. You will realize that one day and soon. It doesn't take getting to goal or anywhere near it to come to that conclusion. Give it some time. I don't know of one single person who's ever said "Gosh, why in the world did I lose this weight, life was much better when I was morbidly obese." And trust me, you won't say it either. It most certainly IS worth it. Good luck!!!!!
Welcome Laurie, This site is fantastic support. Actually, it was my sister's gastric bypass surgery that kickstarted me into losing weight. She tried to talk me into the surgery too, but I knew that I had not really tried to lose weight. A couple of months after her surgery I decided it was time to lose weight. I'm very happy that I didn't go that route, although I understand why some do.
New and very ready
Laurie! This is a great site, and VERY positive (which is what I personally was looking for).
Good luck!!!!!
Laurie. You are indeed in a wonderful and supportive place. Looking forward to getting to know you.
