
Silver!
Hon, have you read the book? You REALLY need to read it before you start. Honestly. Phase 1 is really restrictive and if you mess up even a little bit, you have to start over. It's not worth it to start when you aren't ready. With so many questions (not that it's bad to have questions...please tell us if you do!), I think it'd be better if you wait a bit until you start. You can try to change your eating habits for the better, more towards SBD, in the meantime and read the book. If you can't afford it, borrow it from the library or a friend. Make sure you read the updated Phase 1 list because it shows the latest changes (the books' lists are outdated, though the paperback list is better).
Yogurt and milk have something in them that helps shrink belly fat, as long as you have three servings a day. Maybe you could learn to like one of them with something in them? You could make a smoothie with yogurt and milk and protein powder with some frozen berries in P2 or with SF syrup in P1.

I hated all veggies when I started SBD, but I taught myself to like them because I was really committed to this WOE and getting healthy.
Yes, you can substitute almond butter for peanut butter as long as it's natural. Almonds have vitamin E, which is really helpful. Don't forget you can have regular nuts in place of the nut butters...just make sure it's only one serving per day.