Thanks everyone, I hope that these suggestions have been helpful to others besides just me.
Kathy, thanks for keeping your fingers crossed. I appreciate your suggestions.
Vickie, thanks for adding your info. I think you're right, part of my problem is that I don't have "regular" meals down that I really like to make. I will be looking for those .42 beans though!
Angela, $75 a week!!

You really are my new Core hero!!

I think that a lot of my problem is that I am VERY bad at planning. I am a procrastinator who does not consider dinner until I'm driving home from work...not the best time.
Kally, I like your dinner idea!

And you're right, meals like that are nice. Bad thing is dh usually wants some meat. But he will learn to cope.
Cher, I would LOVE to have a garden. Unfortunately we are renting in the city where there is no yard to call my own. One of these days this will definitely be an option for me!
Kelly, thanks for your ideas. I like the idea about freezing corn, I would probably never think to do that. I know its cheaper to cook from "scratch" I guess I just meant that white rice is cheaper than brown, produce is high, etc.
I am so used to eating Rice a Roni (on sale for .69 this week!) and veggies, things like that. Super cheap and easy to cook. I'm going to have to learn how to plan like Angela. I need a course in meal planning.

Thanks everyone!