Hope you don't mind me throwing my 2 cents in...was just searching the boards for SUGAR BUSTERS and saw the post mentioned (thanks for plugging our board again Pat
) Not that I know much about PCOS, just thougt I'd tell you my little story of infertility, hope you don't mind
I've always been overweight, 17 years ago I weighed in at 284lbs, and I'm only 5 feet 1 1/2" tall, so you can just imagine what I looked like, want to see what I looked like, just click on this link and scan down the page til you see my 9/5 post and my fat picture:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/show...?threadid=7954
Anyhow, I NEVER had a regular period when I was this heavy. Actually, I can't remember ever having regular periods throughout my entire life, guess that's because I've always been heavy
I could go for months without having one. Like Pat, I had facial hair as well, bad too-thank goodness my mother knew how to do electrolysis, but that was after I had already gotten in to the bad habit of plucking them out on a whim and making a mess of my face at the time.
I had my stomach stapled right after that picture was taken, June, 1984. I lost well over 100 pounds, gained all but 40 back. In the meantime, I started going for fertility treatments cause just "doing it" wasn't working, I was on clomid, then on to pergonal, did conceive but lost them all fairly early on. I finally decided to give myself a break and 3 months later, lo and behold, I got pregnant with my son (who is now 15), 17 months after that, I had my daughter (who's 13 1/2). Pregnancies were not easy ones, being so overweight, having gestational diabetes and open sores from surgery that wouldn't heal (forgot to mention after stomach stapling, I had to have my gall bladder removed).
Once between now and back then was I able to lose weight, but not keep it off for good-found the root of my problem was I was an emotional eater-finally recognized that problem! By that time I had inched my way up towards 200lbs again, a place I swore I'd never be!
Anyhow, it wasn't until I lost the weight that I have in the past year and a half that my periods became regular, and it truly amazed me-people would think I was nuts to find joy in that, but when you haven't ever been regular, it's a big deal! Now, my TOM comes usually every 27-28 days, twice in the past year I've been a week late, but other than that, clockwork-AMAZING!
I don't think PCOS was even a word way back then, so I can't say that's what I had, if I did.
Anyhow, don't give up hope in trying to conceive, trust me, when you least expect it, it can happen, and happen again!
GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL!
Debbie
194/125.5/129
SB since 3/22/00
Reached goal 6/10/01